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i've lost all my motivation i used to do everything, boxing, football, going out the sort of things most young people do, now all i do is stay in and wacth T.V, the only good thing i feel i've got at the moment is my girlfriend, we've been together for 4 years and i love her to bits, she's the only person i can talk to but sometimes i feel like i cant her everything, as much as i want to!

2006-12-27 22:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health General Health Care Other - General Health Care

9 answers

Hello =)

You're having some brain-chemistry issues at the moment...nothing to get too upset or philosophical about....go to your doctor, and ask him about paxil.....it'll make you a little tired at first, and, well, a little emotionally flat, but after you get used to it, you'll feel much better. We all go through things like this, and it's usually nothing to do with anything real....just chemical changes in the brain.

Namaste, and Happy New Year,

--Tom

2006-12-27 22:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0 0

It does sound like depression to me. Fortunately the fact that you recognise it is a positive thing.

I don't think people appreciate the impact of good diet and nutrition on mental health. Try looking at what you are eating and see if you can improve things there. Also exercise can be incredible beneficial. It is difficult if you are suffering from lack of motiviation by try making yourself do something, you will feel better afterwards, it's just getting started that's hard. The next time should be easier because you can remind yourself how much better you felt.

You could also speak to your doctor though be wary as they frequentally prescribe antidepressants which aren't always helpful. If you do decide that medication may be beneficial for you then be sure you know before hand what the doctor is prescribing and why. Sadly this type of medication relies a lot on trial and error so it can cause as many problems as it prevents.

You may also find a journal helps. Write down your moods and what effects them. It may help you to avoid situations which aggravate the condition.

Good luck.

2006-12-28 06:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0 0

Sometimes the people we think we love aren't the people that are good for us.Force yourself to go out. Don't let it turn into something more serious. You don't say anything about a having a job. If you don't work that would certainly be the problem. The girl friend may be part of the problem. You have been together since you were 18, and don't enjoy anything any more.

2006-12-28 07:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by jackie 6 · 0 0

Ya 22, get the hell out there and enjoy being 22, everything that I own, to be 22 yrs old again, Grab ya girlfriend, and go someplace thats fun, something you never did b4, skiing, snow mobiling, fly a kite, whatever, NOW GET OUT THERE !

2006-12-28 06:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, get ready to hear this, ok?

Prayer can change things. Get right with the God of the universe, settle up with all your wrongs, and submit to your maker. Then you may ask for help in whatever is going on within you.

2006-12-28 06:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0 0

This site has natural help for depression with a psychiatrist telling what doctors may not tell you about depression.

http://www.phifoundation.org/heal.html

2006-12-28 07:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are in the earliest stage of depression. get recover since now . go out and have avisit with your girl friend. go for afilm

2006-12-28 06:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by jala 1 · 0 0

i call that depression,,,, INERTIA!
you lack the effort of well,, giving effort! try to do lots of things,,,, that you used to love,, play basketball,, football or even soccer!

2006-12-28 06:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by a_n_o_n_y_m_o_u_s 3 · 0 0

Get some antidepressants and drive on.

2006-12-28 06:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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