Does masturbating too much lead to sexual problems?

Question

I usually masturbate between 1-3 times a day. I've been doing this for about 3 years now and now that my girlfriend and I are having sex there has been some problems. I usually tend to orgasm in 1-2 minutes and also i tend to "drip" when my girlfriend is "pleasuring me". Could excessive masturbation be the reason why this is happening. Plz help serious answers only

Answer 1

hmm..i'd probaly think yeah..alittle... while masterbating..... u just gta learn how to control...;)

Answer 2

First, ignore people like JJC, hackworth and shahidand.

They don't know what the hell they're talking about.

There's nothing wrong with your masturbation habits, although you might consider going for quality over quantity. Cut back a tad on the frequency, and concentrate on the pleasure more when you're stroking.

Learn to recognize the feeling that comes just before ejaculation, and then STOP stroking. Let it rest a bit before resuming. You need to learn to control your ejaculation like all the other men in the world. Some have good control and others don't.

But if you're masturbating for only short periods several times a day, you're not teaching yourself any control.

Trust me, I know what I'm talking about.

People who say irresponsible things like like hackworth (i read somewhere that masturbation defenetly leads to sexual problems) and shahidand (Masturbating that many times or for that matter at all will damage the nerve endings) are the reason people get confused on sexual matters. There's just too damned much misinformation.

Answer 3

Is Masturbation Normal?
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.
Is Masturbation Harmful?
In general, the medical community considers masturbation to be a natural and harmless expression of sexuality for both men and women. It does not cause any physical injury or harm to the body, and can be performed in moderation throughout a person's lifetime as a part of normal sexual behavior. Some cultures and religions oppose the use of masturbation or even label it as sinful. This can lead to guilt or shame about the behavior.
Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.

Answer 4

No, it's perfectly normal. The orgasm in 1-2 minutes is simply a matter of your mind being used to your 1-3 times a day habits. Try skipping a few days and then be with your partner and see if that changes things. I have a feeling it will.

Answer 5

yeeesh....you masturbate 1 - 3 times a day, AND have sex with your girlfriend?? I'd see if you were 'single' and doing that, being considered a 'norm', but even having a girlfriend, you still masturbate that many times?
And 1 - 2 min. to reach an orgasm?? That's a bit short, don't you think?? Maybe you're a nymph, and you should consider slowing down on the hand-jobs and focus more on pleasuring your girlfriend more!!

Answer 6

No it should not be a problem. All men and women are different sexually. Masturbating to me solves problems of infedility. Dripping is a way some men respond it shows that she gets you excited. If you have a problem getting up again after orgasm. Rest a few minutes and drink milk. It helps.

Answer 7

Dear 1-2 min are just coz of your brain suppose u r in trouble and u r forced to do sex u will not able to do it coz ur mind doesn't go for it try to avoid getting over exciteed it will help u ok
moreover try to 2 sex every time with ur GF dont masturbate any more now u have a machine for this perpose :)

Answer 8

Driping is normal its your junk getting lubed up for the big bang.
1-2 minutes now that aint right. It has happen to me a few times in my life usualy when I was having problems with my chick or if you think to highly of the chick. think of her as a hoe don't give a **** about nothing and you will be str8...
also if you chill out for a good half hour eating her pussy will help
the only thing mastebating dose is get you off. if you do it to much then you can make your prostate grown since cumming is like an exercise for it. it will grow just like if you work out your bicept wil grow

Answer 9

dude u r right !!! masturbating a lot does and will effect yur ejaculation....do one thing
there is a solution to this which i ha read somewhere
just wen u are about to ejaculate ( while masturbating) , hold yur d**k hard enough so that the *** doesnt come out
do it wenever you masturbate ....and slowly slowly maybe in 2-3 months u will gain that hold
also try drink a lot of fruit juices and BANNANAS and salad

but most of all , dude u got a chick ...giv yur hand a break...

Answer 10

Masturbating that many times or for that matter at all will damage the nerve endings and you are not gonna get a good erection later in life. Be careful!!!

Answer 11

i read somewhere that masturbation defenetly leads to sexual problems... i cant remember all but there were several problems..including too soon ejaculation.. but the good think is that it's remediable.. u just need to do some reasearch on the net.. :) GL