Husband suggests abstinence as method of birth control..?

Question

What's up with that?

Answer 1

Sounds more than a bit fishy to me. Why would he not want to be with you? All I can think of is that perhaps he's getting some some where else. That or very strange chance...he's just not into sex. That sounds highly unlikely though.

Answer 2

Yes, it's one method, but not one married people should use often. There are a ton of options for birth control out there! Patches, pills, shots, condoms, spermacide, and the list goes on.

If he wants something natural with no drugs or paraphernalia, try tracking your ovulation days, (called the "rhythm method") and just don't have sex then. The rest of the month is free and clear.

You may want to consider marriage counseling if you think he just doesn't want to have sex. Good luck, sister.

Answer 3

Thta's crazy. He is up to something. If he won't have sex with you then go buy a bunch of sex toys and tell him you will pleasure yourself without him. Tell him how good the toys are for you and you are fine without his c0ck. Ths will hit his ego and maybe he will come to his senses. Unless of course he IS up to something. It is not normal for a husband not want to have sex with his wife.

Answer 4

It is ok in general. It will take away ur pleasure in sex, being at the highest level during the period of ovulation. In fact that is also the period during which u will have to avoid sex. A better combination wud be to have unprotected or unguarded sex and have protected sex during the period when ur desires are at the highest level.

Answer 5

that sounds...suspicious...
what's his reasoning? religion? medical? hygenical?

Answer 6

abstaining from you maybe.