Since the b/f can't come home on time I changed the locks and never gave him a key. We had an arguement earlier for him taking my vehicle w/o permission. The arguement ended with him slamming a door that hit me in the elbow and him storming out of the house, I yelled for him not to come back to my house! I just got home at 230am to a pitch black house (the way I left it) changed clothes, fixed the kids a snack, turned on TV, and deceided to check the house made a phone call all over the course of 10-12 minutes. There are 3 levels as I was in the middle and could be heard entering the house. Upon checking the house the b/f was on the lowest level standing in the laundry room in the pitch dark, until I flicked the light on. Startling me, I asked whatt he was doing and he stated he ws putting his bike away (. I did ask him to leave earlier, why was he here? I beleive he is trying to check up on me but this was scary and creepy! he knows how I am about this behavior, What do you think?
2006-12-27 20:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Personally.. I'd kick him out and put into a place a restraining order. Sounds like he has the potential to become physically violent, as he is already playing with you emotionally.
2006-12-27 22:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mckayla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be very concerned here. Either this guy is a magician or God, being able to walk thru walls without keys to open doors or hes a criminal specializing in breaking and entering and burglary. You better have him checked out before he gets caught in something and brings you down with him or even worse but we wont go there. If this guy is mixed up in any way with drugs and gets busted and lists your place as his residence, you stand a real good chance of losing everything including custody of your kids. Not good. But a guy that just suddenly appears out of nowhere, unexpected and unannounced, with no apparent way of entry in a place that he knows hes not welcome, Id do some checking and real fast, if only for the kids sake. You can get a protective restraining order against him if needbe and will help if the police are called. Good luck and have a fantastic new year
2006-12-28 05:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think this is a little bit creepy but try not to let your mind work overtime on it, as most women (me included) do!!! He obviously didnt want you to know you were there, but maybe he was going to surprise you with a nice apology or maybe he just wanted to talk to you.
How did he get in the house if you didnt give him a key?? If he broke in I would defo get the police you dont know what any man is capable when hurt and upset, so be careful.
Check your house over for open windows and locked doors and make sure 100% secure, and then just avoid him like the plague. If he intends to keep this behaviour up, I would call the police and ask for advice on how best to handle the situation.
Good Luck and Be Safe
2006-12-28 04:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound right to me either. When you get a chance, I would type in his name on the computer and see what comes up. That is a strange behavior and I don't know if I could deal with that. Make sure that you keep your keys away from him so he can not make a duplicate key to your house.
As for the comp. thing, A girl that I know typed in her boyfriends name on the computer and it came up that he was arrested and jailed for child molestation. Needless to say, she got rid of him, but I would try it anyways just to see what comes up if any.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-28 04:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to know why the kids are up eating snacks at 2:30 in the morning? But to your question yes that is really creepy.
2006-12-28 04:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by caralinar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't have a key, he was trespassing. I'd resolve this situation quickly or you may be sorry. Bring a guy home that knows martial arts or is a weapon collector...that will encourage the old b/f to stay outside where he belongs
2006-12-28 05:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Creepy! Rome around your house for any possible answers on how he came in. DEF do something, especially since you have kids, you wouldn't want to put them in danger.
2006-12-28 04:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Stinky2u4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's unusual that he didn't even have the lights on. I think he was trying to scare you since you two had argued earlier. Men are mysterious sometimes.
2006-12-28 04:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incredibly creepy, he clearly didn't want you to know he was there. How did he even get in? Does he have a key that you don't know about, perhaps?
2006-12-28 04:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Blondonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you didn't give him a key to the house, how could he have gotten in? it also think it's creepy. you might want to report to the police.
2006-12-28 04:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋