How do we come to know, whether who will b our life partner, who care for us forever?

Question

this is for both girls/boys.

Answer 1

As a person who has been married for 17 years, here is how to tell if this person is Mr Right.

Is this a person that YOU are willing to be committed to no matter what happens, and you are willing to put their needs before your own?

Then ask if that person is willing to do the same for you.

When you both can answer that question honestly as "yes" and that includes when he's tired and cranky, not very affectionate, and you can still love him and be there for him.

When you are able to both say "yes" that both of you will be there for the other person, then you have the life partner.

Answer 2

Unfortunately there are no guarantees in life that you can rely on in this siutation. Even those Christians who pray and truely do find their life partner (spouse by marriage) have found themselves in devorce courts. People change over time and sometimes love fades away for whatever reason.

Unless you both can truely communicate about everything with each other-the road ahead can be very rough. And marriage needs to be based on mutual trust and respect. One of the most helpful things is a marraige with the lord at the head of it and of you and your spouse have a personal ongoing relationsip with Him.

God doesn't promise a marraige to be a bed of roses-it can get throny on many issues which is why it is so important to talk these things out in advance-from money matter, having children, how many,what faith to raise them in if you are both of different faiths-will one or both of you work even after children come, etc. ask each other what they expect of you and above all, if you are a believer, ask the Lord to lead you to the one He has intended since before you were even born! He knows!

Answer 3

well everything comes from experience, and 1Th love is the worst ,,if u cant depend on urself that's why parents there for or even a true friend to help u ,,, now i or anyone else cant give u any answers,but through our answers u can pick up some nice experience,which u can use wisely but not with everyone ,,, the Q remains the same >>how u will know << ? with spending so much time in social activities,some books will help body language and all, but whatever it is its deep inside of the person there are so many kinds of humans out there covered by sheep skin, but deep inside like hungry wolf's, so in life only with time the truth revills and refills knowledge in u so u wont step into a mud again ,,,after gathering and rebuilding urself and ready for some true relationship again step gently into it one giant mistake can destroy u but gentle steps maybe offend u but learned somthin new so u can use it next time in a different person ,,, like they say know ur enemy before u know ur friends coz we always watch out and calculate the enemy more so we know them well in this matter its the partner its not the enemy but its better to know them from the toe till the head every accurate simple thing on them ,,,,
its really a deep explanation it cant be wrote or tell in so much little space and time ,,,,,,,,,

Answer 4

A perfect match, some one who is made you and you for him is a theoritical and practical impossibility. We must approach life and our life partner, with an open mind. Ask life as it comes. Be prepared for any thing in life. You will never be disappointed and demoralised when certain unsavoury things happens to you. The secret of happiness lies in being least expectant.

Answer 5

Have you seen how kids run away from someone that holds and hugs them by force? But if the child is not forced, they come to you. It's the same with love; you cannot force someone to love you and if you try it will only push them away..
The only thing you can do is to show that you love and trust your partner and then if you're a good match, they will come to you and maybe even stay.
Love is just a risky business! ;-)

Answer 6

we cannot know this till the moment comes and we should not think about it to much. if you live in the present moment that you have and have only love for others you will be cared even in hell.