well i sleep with my boss.when we started he was just a supervisor than he got promoted.and think i have no feeling for him i just do it because i wanna get promoted as fast as possible.well i think he doesn't like me that much either.hi just scared that if i quit he can't handle his office.because the biz depends on me. and i'm in this stupid relationship trying to be nice.or maybe he likes me and i just don't feel it because i have no feelings for him i don't know?because we been together for 2 years already. oh yeah he has wife and kids. thats messd up.ha ha .i'm goin crazy.quit the job and get new one? well other jobs i don't think if u get promoted u can make 600$ profit per sale, and i can sale thousends. so i thing stay with him and work hard so i can promoted fast.?????
2006-12-27 20:03:16 · 22 answers · asked by busy_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have been sleeping with him for 2 years and you still have not been promoted, I would take that as a hint that it is not going to happen. He is sleeping with you for sex and that is it. You are not going to get anything more out of it.
I would quit and then call his wife and tell her everything. You might not be the only girl he is sleeping with and she could be in serious danger (and so could you!) of getting a disease.
2006-12-27 20:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is an old rule of thumb...do not get involved with a co-worker. I can be almost as bad as working in the same office as your spouse after you have had an argument.
BUT since you have already did this..your chances of being promoted are in fact slim to none. Why? Because believe it or not managers have a way of telling others about you in ways that can hurt your career. Not saying he has told others about the affair, BUT he is aware of what you will do to get to the next level. And do not be surprised if others in the office know....
Point being, if you enjoy the "JOB" stay BUT if you can do the same at another place move on. If I were you I would be looking elsewhere. Find something better to do. You appear to be too emotionally involved so you cannot see the "forrest for the trees".
Again sleeping with the boss was a bad move. It used to work back in the 80's largely.. But today, you have to have a little bit more such as brains.
Anywayz move on girl, move on! As Beyonce sings, you are irreplaceable.. Never assume that only you can do the job - NOT! Because you are replaceable. For your own sanity and needs, I say go!
One more thing he is married..remember what goes around comes around. So if you do not want to be too hurt when your time comes around, you best be on your way NOW.
Do or die!
2006-12-27 20:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by KeraniBai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think you are getting a promotion??
I think being on your back for the last two years has affected your morals and your spelling!! If after your two years your boss has not promoted you, he is not going to. If you are so good at your job why did he get promoted and not you??? You want a fast promotion try closing your legs and doing some work, you will be pleasantly surprised by the results.
2006-12-27 20:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you baby. I hope you are not telling the truth here. If you are it is time for you to move on. Get a new job. Don't do this again. This is not the way you get ahead. You have made a big mistake. You never date someone you work with. Never. And this is why. Conflict of interest. Good luck to you. There are many books on the market you can read that will explain.
2006-12-27 20:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sonoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have made a big mistake in the first place,it's seems like u don't care for ur self come on get out of this mess u still have life to face this boss is just using u for his good move on,but u said u have been together for 2 yrs and u don't have feelings for him then it's quiet clear there's no future there anyway it's ur choice to go ahead or to step back but if i were u i i would have left the job right away.
2006-12-27 20:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by richardsmercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you reap what you sow, If you are found out and with f*c(&%$ the boss, and sooner or late ryou will, it will be all over for both of you.
If you don't have enough self-respect to earn a promotion on your own and are messing with your married boss to do it, sooner or later it will come to light that you are nothing better than the prostitue that you and you will not only be fired, but blackballed from the industry. Practice up for spending the rest of your days at the Bunny Ranch in Vegas because that is who you truly are.
2006-12-27 20:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sleeping with your boss is not going to get you a promotion.
wise up and call it off. if there is a problem at work afterwards, get a new job. fraternizing are grounds for termination at most jobs. seems like you have some emotional problems, because if you don't have enough self respect to realize where you are wrong in getting with a married man, then you need professional help.
2006-12-27 20:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never ok to sleep with a married man. Look what it's doing to you. I know you aren't happy doing it.
Plus I promise, this will come around on you when you are married with kids, a young biatch will come around and screw your husband.
You can't tell if he likes you because his guilt overpowers it all.
YOu don't have to keep sleeping with him, if he wants to fire you or not promote you for not screwing him, threaten to tell his wife.
This job should be based upon your qualifications, not because you suck duck well.
If you can't work with this guy and NOT sleep with him, you ned a new job.
Bottom line, you need to end the relationship
2006-12-27 20:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betting you haven't seen the promotions you thought you would. He sleeps with you because you are "available". If he puts pressure on you to do it...inform him you will tell his wife about the affair. That should shut him up. Most men don't want wifey knowing. I would start to look for another job but that is just me.
2006-12-27 20:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a MORON!! It was okay until I read that he is married with children. Why do you want to be a home wrecker? Can you not get anyone else than a married man? You are screwing with a family all because of money. That is just wrong!! If you want to screw up your life, then that is your business. But don't screw up and entire family's lives. Have some morals for yourself and maybe you will get some where. Use your brain that is in your head....well that is if you have one!!
2006-12-27 20:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋