I have been crushin on this boy for a awhile now and i found out so was my best friend should i back off and let her have him
2006-12-27 19:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by Serenity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you feel your desire for him is deeper than your friendship, go for it. If you feel your your friendship is more important than anything else right now, talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and if you're the best of friends then, hopefully, you can work it out. Don't forget the guy has a say in this, too. How will you feel if he fancies both of you or neither of you, instead of one of you???
2006-12-27 20:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by rihojos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common issue between best friends because you guys share stories abotu the boys you like and stuff so then there is a possibility that both of you guys will like the same guy. I think that if you guys are best friends then you shouldn't let any guy come between your friendship. Talk about the situation and make your decision from there. There is no need to continue liking the same boy, you guys are best friends. Either one of you will date him or the three of you could all be friends to eliminate any other issues.
2006-12-27 23:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chrisssy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your best friend she shouldn't require you to back off and you shouldn't require her to back off. Both of go for it, but not as a competition. If he chooses one of you, fine, be happy for each other and if he doesn't choose either of you, laugh about it together. Don't let this ruin a friendship because 9/10 the relationship ends up not working, so a person ends up without a friend and without the guy she thought she had.
2006-12-27 20:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by banana_monster_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the real question is, is this boy worth losing your best friend over? But you see most boys aren't but If he is you take him. But if he isn't just back off and let your friend have him because most boys i'm not saying all but most boys are immature jerks and are defedently not worth losing a best friend over. So you and your friend can stay friends. So if that boy is a jerk and hurts your friend your friend has a friend to talk to.
2006-12-27 20:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both not have a competition... there is no fault in liking anyone... don't make a decision for the guy... let him decide which of you two he prefers to love... so there is no need yet to back off...
2006-12-27 20:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wild Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you should go for him, it WILL wreck things between you if one of you does. I know this from personal experience. If she is a good friend to you then be one to her and choose her over the boy.
2006-12-27 20:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...
First of all ,its not a thing which you can have or ur friend can have.. Just get to know wat that boy wants..and decide it and live happily..
so no worries ,just clear the things so that you remain best friends and instead of making a love triangle make a lovable couple...
cheers
2006-12-27 20:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bally San 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He`s the one who choose.You don`t have to back of just like that.He` should choose one of you 2(if he do that) and the otherone which wasn`t choosen should give up.
2006-12-27 20:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by sanjabezovska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your best friend and you care for her well let her have the boy and just said to yourself that you just make the wright thing and if you are willing to give up just everything just for your best friend. if you like the guy and u are willing to give up your friendship because of a guy well go on,"pero pagdating ng araw wag kang magsisisi dahil may nasaktan ka dahil sa iyong pag-ibig!" take a time to think and ask this to yourself "is our friendship's important to me, can i give up everything just for my bestfriend?"
2006-12-27 20:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by emz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should not rool back let that bo make decison and if she likes ur friend then u should move out but if he likes u then theres no need to move away ;)
2006-12-27 19:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by nabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋