Well .. I and my husband are trying for a baby .. Well,its just that it takes me a lot to get aroused ,but i can particularly get aroused when fondled with at the breast area ... well , my husband has the routine thing of just pressing them ,very hardly.. people , please give me some suggestions on how can he softly caress my breasts?It arouses me instantly the area of the breast.... how can he get to it ... also a bit creatively...any techniques?
2006-12-27 19:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by simply_myself 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Hi, Newlywed Here!!!(November married)
Lets see... you could have him kiss you on and around your breast, and lick around them(your nipples) very lightly and gently,that should tease you a little. You could also have him kiss and lick your neck, belly, and around your belly button. You could also have him rub them very lightly with the tip of his fingers in a circular motion.
Have him put syrup(strawberry, maple, chocolate, caramel) or honey on them and suck it off. (he could also bit them very gently)
Let him rub an ice cube on and around your nipples-that will make them stick out.
He could tickle them with a feather also.
So many things you two could try. Experiment and see what you like.
2006-12-27 19:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anestyalaska♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few pointers that he can try:
Since you say that you get aroused when your breasts are fondled, talk to him about this first! Most men don't understand the eroticism that women get from it.
You can tell him to utilize the entire breast, not just the nipple.
The nipple will be more sensitive if he were to pay attention to the rest of the breast and then go to the nipple. I suggest that he just goes to the nipple briefly and then goes back and forth from the remainder of the breast to the nipple several times.
If you are looking for other ways that he can give your breast attention, here are a few things that I know...
Have him lick/suck the cleavage. I know it sounds lame, but you'll like it. Have him suck and lick under your breast, you'll never realize how good it feels unless it's been done. Have him move his tongue around in circular motions and to go from soft to firm and back again. I'm sure that your breast would like to be "roughly handled", but obviously not unless you are already aroused!
Finally...
A little secret I learned years ago, have him use some lotion or oils (can do it dry to, but not too much pressure) and rub the upper portion of your breast. To do this, have him use his palms and keep them flat on the breast. Tell him not to use too much pressure, but to still use some. By rubbing, I mean for him to move his palms in a circular motion. This is best done by switching directions periodically as to not cause a tolerance to it.
One last thing, tell him to do this well engaging in intercourse, you'll love it. If he doesn't get creative and do it yourself, he'll love that! You have to remember, don't think about what you are doing or what is going on, and just think about how it feels. If it seems weird, you may just be experiencing something new and you may end up liking it. Never shun stuff in the bed until you have experienced it!
2006-12-27 20:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Louis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help if YOU start the foreplay with him. If you are gentle with him, maybe he will be a little more gentle with you. While you are doing this you can show him what you want/like by taking his hands and rubbing them on you that way that you want him to do it. To be a little more creative with it, try blindfolding him. That way he won't know what to expect. Also, put on some slow romantic music. This will also set the tone of how fast or slow the two of you should be going.
2006-12-28 06:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Summer Breeze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing and caressing the breast is every woman's liking but not all men know how to go about this, it might be time to teach him what you like maybe on his own breast or chest area.
2006-12-27 19:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by sydney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's simply a matter of communicating to him what you want and retraining him to do it correctly. If you're not sure exactly what you like most, try it out yourself and then show him. Better yet, let him watch you experiment, then you'll both be roaring to go.
2006-12-27 23:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your husband sweetly suck your nipple of your left breast and softly touching your same breast while in the actual lovemaking and if possible both of you will at the same time reach the climax so that the sweet part of both of you will met and their feel the most sweetness part of it
2006-12-27 19:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ice cubes?
2006-12-27 19:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Scotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purchase feathers and insist he use them to tickle you there!
2006-12-27 19:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This works, every time,
Take his hand and show him what you like, he aims to please!
2006-12-27 19:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋