lately i've been having these urges to give some guy a b-l-o-w-j-o-b. and the only person i would feel the littlest bit comfortable doing it to would be my friend. him and i were talking one night about porn and the subject of gay porn was brought up and i got around to what he would do if a guy wanted to give him a b-l-o-w-j-o-b but wanted one in return and he told me he would do anything once. well we got around to basically setting up a day that we were going to give each other b-l-o-w-j-o-b-s. but then the day that it was going to happen on i started getting second thoughts and called it off. but is till have the urge to give him one. i know he would be alright with it and i would probably get one in return. so should i just get it over with and give him a b-l-o-w-j-o-b to see what its like or what? any advice would be appreciated but no smart asses please. thanks
2006-12-27 19:07:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
do it if your ready and if its legal... how old are you?
2006-12-27 19:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by eli♥you 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a good way for you to know if it is right for you or not! If you don't like it you never have to do it again and you will know for sure! It's like when you were a little kid your mom might have tried to get you to eat something you had never tried before! You say right away to your mom that you don't want any of it because you don't like it! But you have never tried it so you don't really know if you like it or not and until you try it you will never really know if you like it or not. One thing I will warn you about right now tho is that if this guy blows in your mouth and you have never had *** in your mouth before you might want to vomit I know I wanted to the first time I had *** in my mouth, but now I am used to it and it does not bother me at all.
I say go for it!
Good luck with it.
*hugs*
JAC<
in Hamilton, Ontario, CANADA
2006-12-28 03:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by jackaboo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You're both virgins, right? If not, protection may be in need.
Life is about experiences... if you can't even get a BJ, how do you expect to get to the actual SEX? Have fun! Be careful...
2006-12-28 03:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to give him head, give him head. But be aware this might make your friendship awkward, and that he might not want to go further (or, he might and you might not want to!) Talk it over with him, and make sure you know what he expects and what you expect. If one of you expects a relationship, for example, things could get ugly, fast!
2006-12-28 05:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by roxusan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be open about it. If you feel you don't want to do it yet, don't try and force yourself to do it. If you do, the enjoyment isn't a good as it would be if you were ready.
2006-12-28 03:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by v3stylz17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try again..but don't back out on him next time or that may be your last chance...Sounds like he's eager to participate.
2006-12-28 03:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think so much before doing a thng that it becomes too late for u....go for it all the best!
2006-12-28 05:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by kawal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is something you want to do, then go for it, but don't force anything upon yourself.
2006-12-28 03:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to, just stop bugging the planet about it.
2006-12-28 03:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW ABOUT BIBLICAL ONE. NO TWO OF THE LIKE KIND SHOULD LAY TOGETHER.
SATAN IS THE GREAT DECEIVER & THE FATHER OF LIES.
2006-12-28 04:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by CHRISTIAN 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you both are of consenting age,
it is your business and no one elses.
2006-12-28 03:17:00 · answer #11 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋