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2006-12-27 19:01:42 · 37 answers · asked by loser07 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

37 answers

First ask yourself why?????????????
and if your serious about being married you have to give all you have to give, and then some................need i say more???????

2006-12-27 19:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by joyfulone 4 · 6 0

It's better to leave your wife if u cant quit cheating on her. If you love her 1 u shouldnt have cheated anyway 2 u got to end this. A woman doesnt need to be cheated on. talk to ur wife and work through it

2006-12-27 19:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Aware 2 · 0 0

Well ask yourself why you are cheating on her. Is it because something is missing from the relationship? If so, try to fix it, but it probably wouldn't be a good idea to tell your wife that you cheated on her. Also, don't allow yourself to be in position with a woman that you could be tempted. If you really love your wife, you won't want to lose her and just need to spice up your marriage so you don't feel like you are missing anything.

2006-12-27 19:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lis B 2 · 1 1

I guess you should ask yourself WHY you cheat on your wife. Do you have a sexual addiction? Do you need something she's not providing? There are lots of reasons why men cheat. Usually it's just the "I'm bored with the same ol' same ol'" . Do you love your wife? If you do, perhaps you should seek help. If she finds out, do you think she'll forgive you?

2006-12-27 19:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dani M 1 · 0 0

Get a divorce - no wife, no cheating - or stop opening your fly for anyone other than your wife.

2006-12-27 19:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by keltarr 3 · 1 0

Seems like you have been doing it for sometime w/o getting caught. You must be very good at it.

If you want to stop it, just carefully be a little sloppy. She will take care of the rest. Well, this means that you will be under her wrath for some time. But it will end tho. Just show her this page and let her know that you loved her so much that you intentionally got sloppy to get caught! :)

2006-12-27 20:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My ex cheated on me only after 5 weeks. I found that men need an ego boost because they are insecure about themselves. If only someone who did such a thing (cheat after making that vow) could feel th heartwreatching pain it causes others, it would happen less. How would you feel if this was reversed on you? PLEASE THINK OF SEEING A THERAPIST AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE. Especially if your wife is a good ,decent person. May GOD bless you and good tidings.

2006-12-27 19:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by amrosemary43 1 · 0 0

No one can tell you how to stop cheating. You have to commit yourself about stopping. Remember the reason y you married her. Remember the good times.

2006-12-27 19:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Sometimes people cheat not because they are unhappy with their spouse...But because they are unhappy with their self and feel they are lacking something. and sometimes they do it simply because they are concerned about how they feel or they want more excitement. Whatever your case is...IT IS WRONG! You need to figure out what is important to you and what it is you are looking for and stop hurting others in the process!

2006-12-27 23:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Robin L 6 · 0 0

Wow. Severe the ties with the person you have having the affair with, or tellyour wife you are unhappy and find counseling or something to put the fire back in the marriage.

2006-12-27 19:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by flawless_agony 2 · 4 0

Imangine (if you have kids) that they are watching you cheating in the same room. Hey, it could help! Ok, but seriously, you need to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking and loving your spouse.

Stop doing it! ESPECIALLY if you have a snoopy kid like me who searches everything to find the answers and put the pieces together. (It was so sad and sometimes I have to cry my self to sleep because of everything I found, trust me you don not want to know what I found, naked pics of that B**ch on my dad's cell phone etc...) Put yourself in your family's shoes, imaginge what it's like to be them if or not they found out what you are doing.

2006-12-27 19:17:09 · answer #11 · answered by Stinky2u4u 3 · 2 0

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