2006-12-27 18:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The very same can be said for American men. The male midlife crisis has been occuring long before the Americas were discovered by Europeans. LOL
2006-12-28 06:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true and is very hurtful. There are many many women who love with thier whole hearts and who stay with men who are not so loyal or loving. Maybe you're talking about "girls" and not "women". There is loyalty out there, but sometimes it has to be inspired. A greedy, disloyal, hateful, abusive, egocentric man cannot expect to be loved and cherished for himself if he can't give of himself.
I know that I have always been completely loyal and have cherished and adored the very very few men that I have loved - even if they had some problems. Right now I love a man who is the epitomy of what a man is - smart, patient, mature, patriotic, funny, fair, loyal, God-loving, completely honest, spiritual, sexy, competent, and with INTEGRITY. That's what's lacking in a lot of people. That one thing - INTEGRITY. This man makes me so proud to be his. If the sexiest, richest man came looking for me, I can honestly say that I would stay with this man that I love. I never in my wildest dreams thought that I would ever know a man like him. You must be looking in the wrong places or maybe you're placing looks and lust ahead of what you claim to be looking for. Loyalty and such attributes don't always come with outside beauty. Once though that you find that person who has that inner strength of character and integrity, they will probably be the most beautiful person you ever saw and you will be a better man for appreciating it and living up to her ideal of YOU!
2006-12-28 07:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look through the eyes of a woman, her sexual attraction is pretty much obsolete by the time she is 45 or so, and you know she doesn't want to work a job or anything, so she has to find the best guy to take care of her. It would be like a guy quitting a job to get a higher paying one, women look at relationships as business transactions. They have no problem breaking up a marriage and raking you over the coals, getting what they 'deserve' (even though they didn't work and watched daytime tv while you were bringing home the bacon)
2006-12-28 04:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of the most valuable and useful things you could learn now is not to generalize about a group of people, such as American young women. They're all individuals. If you learn that you may find one who shows some loyalty to you. If you can't get that that explains why nobody is loyal.
2006-12-27 21:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only reason women and men get together is coz the parts fit and sometimes men aren't even good at gettin the parts connected if you catch my drift. There are men who can and then there are others who can't, why not have someone who can connect the parts in a way a woman likes than one who leaves room for errors?
2006-12-28 00:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called competition and nature. The fittest survive. The best man gets the girl. Why would a woman want to be stuck in a relationship with a lazy slob who mistreats her? I am sure if she is getting all her needs met she has no need to be disloyal.
2006-12-27 19:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is looking for the bigger better deal.
2006-12-28 13:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the woman!!! Sounds like you may have a pattern. Trust me, there are many types for you to choose from here.
2006-12-27 22:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak for yourself bottom line is we dont have to Obey or put up with endless years of emotional unavailability or whatever it is men think that we should tolerate to be loyal you ,we can do for ourselves,by choice
2006-12-28 00:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Agent99 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometimes she gets bored. or realizes she DESERVES better. "key" word 'deserves'. cuz in america. girls arent forced to marry at age 7. and some girls are s!uts. but you'll know which ones those are. they'll usually tell you why they leave a relationship. that is...assuming you are talking about relationships here.
2006-12-27 19:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋