I was just venting. There is no question to be answered of course comments are always welcomed. one person asked was i asking was it okay to cheat on my husband? No. I was not asking that. I know that i am totally wrong. As far as the guy who i am pregnant by he has some control issues that i've been noticing. I do not want to be with him either. I want to be by myself and get my head right. i work and im in college, so i'm trying to do something to make a better life for my children. i'm not looking for sympathy. Although encouraging words are nice. I plan on raising this baby myself. Giving this child up or killing it is not an option, just another thing in life to regret. I'm sick of regrets. I just have to face up to my responsibility love this child and do what is best for the child. I know to many i may appear to be a slut, but you don't know me. I understand you though i used to judge people too, now look at me. this has been a very humbling lesson for me. Thank you for comment
2006-12-27 18:51:50 · 7 answers · asked by ms_lique 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I've got a friend in that very same situation. Hold your head up, and don't let it get you down...
2006-12-27 18:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't make any comments before. I am a mother of 2. When I was younger, I was impregnanted by my exboyfriend who gave me the money to get an abortion. I did since I had no money or place to live. As insensitive as he was, he offered me a ride home after the procedure on his motorcycle. 4 years later, I joined the service and met my husband of 7 years now. I am also trying to get my life together. Currently trying to go to nursing school to get my degree at age 33.
I commend you for not wanting to abort because that was my regret. You sound very responsible and I am sure that your decisions will make a positive outcome in your children's life as well.
2006-12-28 02:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very mature and responsible of you to know that you made the mistake and won't make another even though it may be harder on you. Sometimes, it is just better to be by yourself and get your life on track before worrying about another person in the relationship. I was/am not pregnant but I just needed time alone for a few weeks from my partner and things were better. Less fights, more me time; more thinking time. Goodluck, I hope these words cheered you up a bit.
2006-12-28 02:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you will be able to adequately love and care for your child.
Good luck and I hope at some point you might find someone to share your child with you.
2006-12-28 03:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*** chin up. learn from your mistakes and take comfort in the fact that you're doing that. ignore those that judge...they've got issues of their own that they need to deal w/. that's not your problem tho..."you are where u need to be" <--remember that. take it one step at a time and you'll get to where u should.
2006-12-28 02:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by meme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations to you and your baby.
2006-12-28 03:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go Mommy!!!
2006-12-28 03:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋