I hear a lot of posts about how some husbands wont get rid of their playboy magazines...I would not be able to have a husband as immature and sick as that.
2006-12-27 18:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Isn't it a natural thing for men/women to look at porn. If that is your choice of not liking porn than that's your choice. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Just because someone likes porn, they are not sick or immature - sex is a natural thing and a way of expressing yourself.
Do whatever works for you
Happy New Year!
2006-12-27 23:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by mooster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live with my boyfriend, and he used to watch porn all the time, and hide it and deny it. I don't mind other men watching porn, i don't think it is wrong if you are single, or if your partner also enjoys it, or has no problem with it. But for me Personally, i don't like it, and i feel that when he watches it, it is disrespecting me. So we had a long battle with it. We had to sit down and talk about how each of us felt about it. We decided that because he felt it was not big deal that he did it. He just did it when he was bored, or frustrated or whatever. And i had a HUGE issue with it, it hurt my feelings, it made me uncomfortable, he decided to quit. Instead we are trying new things in the bedroom and making our own videos and pictures. It makes our sex life more fun, and now when he gets horny and i'm not around, he can just look at OUR pictures. It worked out well for us.
2006-12-28 13:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature and sick? OK. That is a new one. I watch it with my husband. So does that make me sick too? It doesn't turn me on but sometimes it adds that little spark for him. I guess I am more open minded and less prudish than some.
Another way of looking at it...be glad it isn't gay porn. Or that he is at home with you and not out with someone else having an affair.
2006-12-27 19:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that strongly about pornography, you should not marry someone who is interested in porn. I don't have a problem with porn at all. I actually watch it with my fiance on occasion. As long as the pornography isn't any thing illegal like kids, then I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I guess it just boils down to different strokes for different folks.
2006-12-27 19:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can install a software like NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-12-30 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playboy is for losers.. I prefer Hustler and my future wife (I hope) she won't mind.. .. she is a FOX and I can tell by her voice and pictures she better then Playboy.. she is yummy..
2006-12-29 14:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm with you on this one.. There is no reason for him to want to watch someone else have sex.. To me it's degrading...
2006-12-28 03:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by ahg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never bothered me. Its kind of funny. Watching them get off to someone they'll never have
2006-12-27 19:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by ms_lique 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple....I wouldn't deal with it either!
2006-12-27 19:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to deal with it... or pop some popcorn and sit down and see what the big deal is....lmao
2006-12-27 19:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by bowpeep 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋