the last year has been a struggle between his service in Iraq and a past affair comming out, we have been comming closer together, but I want to spice things up a bit, any suggestions????
2006-12-27 18:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by babe407 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
hi there ......hope you had a good christmas ...youre husband is a brave man doing the job that he does i take my hat of to him ....and as you are his wife i also take my hat of to you ,as you are the one how has tosit back and worry about him when he is away ....with the past affair coming to light you both must want things to get back on track ,here are a few ideas to get things a bit hotter ,ever wrote him a really steamy etter that would just be fr his eyes only ......sent him the odd sexy txt you need to visit a anne summer shop,that pace will give you all different ideas and believe it or not the staff that work there will help you they will talk to you about any aspect of there products with a bit of humour not being nasty with it but just as fun and to relax the situation ........you must know his favourite colour alll men have one ....get sexy nightie in that colour and show them .......men get excited by sight not like us we need smells and feelings to get us going ....sort of speak ....i hope this helps and the love sparks start to fly for you both .....take care of each other xx
2006-12-27 18:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married for 6 years too
Congrats first of all!!!
I think yall should go out of town of just get a hotel for a couple days go to a spa together just talk relax get some body oils and do dome things to him hunny that you have never done before....
2006-12-27 18:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by light_skin68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over do it. Just be yourself and if you try too hard he will see through you and he will relax and let you do all the work let him also try to spice thing up in your marriage love is a two way traffic.
2006-12-27 18:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf have had simliar problems (affairs). were trying to make it work. this past week, for christmas, i decided to try to spice things up at homea again. sex had been kinda randoml and boring.... he bought me a vibrator and we play with it together. so i suggest go to an adult bookstore and look around at some stuff together. buy a couple of toys and go home and play!
2006-12-27 18:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-Marry on the Marriage anniversary.
2006-12-27 19:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start role playing during your sex life.
Or just go on more getaways and start becoming more intimate and flirty again.
That always works.
2006-12-27 18:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ud [man] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swing
2006-12-27 18:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋