My sister took in a girl.. One nightmare, after another with my sis. She has 5 children -has had problems with the health of 2 children which have been serious. Now, she has moved in (to my parents home where she stays, she and the 5 kids and the husband) a girl who is 16 or 18 not sure they keep lying about the girl and I only know her name to be ashley that she is pregneat and has a trucker mouth and my nieces complained the girl is cussing my nieces out. My parents are fighting my mom went to my grandfathers to stay. Dad stands behind my sister on letting the girl stay. I have called Child Protective Services on this but I don't know what else to do! I am worried for the saftey of my nieces and nephews! My sister and dad have no history on this girl and she carries on like a mad cow! What if she has her friends robb my fathers home or god knows what? I can't talk sense to my dad or sister. Someone Help--Indiana here!!
2006-12-27 17:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Lopez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes!! I did tell my sister take her to a shelter and had my nieces till tonite! I had them since Christmas but CPS told me if my sister asked for the kids back I must return them. I have my own children to raise and have my own home. I don't need the extra problems but, I will do anything for the safety and well-being for a child. But, I think my sister has lost her mind on letting this girl stay in my fathers house. Now, my sister took my nieces shopping tonite when she got them home and bought the girls a camcorder! Yet, when they came home with me my one niece came wearing a t-shirt too small-hi-rise jeans and flip-flops!! We live in Indiana!!! So, it's not like it's warm here! I went and bought my nieces clothes once again and shoes and took them home to my dads house where my sister lives at. I am worried these kids are not taken care of at ALL!!!
2006-12-27 18:12:09 · update #1
GEEZ, being pregnant, and cussing at children???
I think I know what kind of mom SHE'S going to be....
SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO CUSS AT POOR INNOCENT KIDS LIKE THAT. Especially if they are your own relatives.
They have authority if they own the house, they set the rules. If that girl can't respect those rules, then SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE.
If that girl makes you worry about child safety, then by God she's dangerous. She has already attracted bad things to the household by making your parents argue over her. she might attract even more bad things, this time in physical form. It's one thing to worry about her unborn child, but quite another when the person is beginning to threaten your own.
2006-12-27 18:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by JILL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your dad and mom's house, not your house or your sister's house. What they say, goes.
She might be bringing in some sort of cash into the household that your parents might need.
You have to pull back from this. I think this is a very temporary living situation that will end once the girl has her baby. Still, continue to monitor the whole thing. If your nieces need a break and want to come and visit you, let them do that. Leave the door open but at the same time, stop getting into the business of your sister and your parents.
2006-12-27 18:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys invited her into your home. You should let her know that you can always drop her off at a homeless shelter, and that she should be more respectful. If she is not, kick her out. Right now, though, I'd set up your nieces to stay at one of their friend's houses. Their parents should be understanding in this situation. But the kids should not be in the house. It sounds that lady is about to turn. Really, get the kids out of the house until she leaves. She cannot stay in your house. Get on CPA's case. Take her to a homeless shelter. Those people are nicer than CPA, and more responsive. Consider her dangerous until you know otherwise.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-27 18:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by R Paige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to get out of their home and get help before she has her own child. There is no excuse or exception for cussing at children. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse; it will stick with those children for years (if not forever). Tell your sister and parents this. Try putting it to them this way: ask them if they would stand for someone physically abusing the children? It could only be a matter of time before she starts getting physical with the kids and she may even take her anger out on her own newborn child. Please keep an eye on this girl and keep reporting her abuse.
2006-12-27 18:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few questions you need answered, is someone in the family getting the baby after its born, like your father?your sister?
You need to tell the pregnant girl, that you are recording her(whether or not you are, just make her aware of it).
being pregnant doesnt give anyone an excuse to verbally abuse kids. you are the guest, respect the rules or get out.
your father isnt much of a man, to let his wife go anywhere
over a pregnant girl.
cuz kept bringing his flings to the house, my mom said she is leaving, dad told cuz to get a motel room, mom stayed. its as simple as that. its no ones fault that the girl got pregnant
but her own, see who the father is? could it be your dad.
sorry not trying to hurt you. just there is alot of iffy things going on.
2006-12-27 20:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋