What should I do??? I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2006-12-27 17:53:06 · 10 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are so many ways of telling your girl you love her without touching her 'in that way'. Unlike boys - most girls like being treated like a princess and literally worshiped. And since you are so much in love, this is almost natural thing to be doing. Make the first move, but only a wee bit, let her come to you 75% of the effort. Go slow, she will reciprocate in her own way when she feels comfortable with you. Till then enjoy the time u spend together, hanging out, chatting, bitching etc etc. Its wonderful to have a soul-mate, buddy types anyday !
2006-12-27 17:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People come from different cultural backgrounds. Some people do not like to display affection in public. This difference does not stop two people from growing closer in a non-sexual way. Growing closer requires both people to give up some ground. On the other hand, their may not be such a desire for the other person to grow closer.
I think that this person will respond best to verbal communication where the message is in the words and not in the nuance.
2006-12-28 02:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by taxigringo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not easy to answer your question as age important.I think you should look for another girl as well as this one.She maybe very shy but odd because you have known each other so long.It may not be possible for her to grow closer to you.If she really cares for you holding hands should be acceptable to her.Tell her how you feel.Find out what she wants.If you love her then wait another six months.
2006-12-28 02:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god !!! ur adorable..any girl would be lucky to have u...im sure u know that by now...well to help u out here are some things
1. does she know how u fell about her??
2. invite her to dinner and a movie and see if she tries to hold ur hand.
3. ask her out to a club or dancing that would be a lot of dancing and touching...shell get more comfterbel
start with like touches her cheek,hair,hand,hug,or tap on the shoulder
good luck
2006-12-28 01:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by orangejuice85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affection both verbal and physical is important in a relationship. Explain that to her... and since you clearly aren't a sleeze...she'll probably understand and also explain why PDA's(public displays of affection) are important to you.it sounds kind of cheezy but trust me i was the same way as she was at first.
2006-12-28 02:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, I'm kinda like that too, but once I get to know people better, it gets easier for me. Just try to be understanding and give her some time. Who knows, maybe once you're in the relationship, she'll stick to you like glue!
2006-12-28 01:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now there isn't much more you can do. maybe she is testing the water to see how this relationship will proceed before she commits. you don't want to push her either so just be patient, if it is meant to be, things will happen in due time.
2006-12-28 01:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect too much. You are not going to marry this girl. Just enjoy each other.
2006-12-28 01:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 pts for me for best answer ty
2006-12-28 01:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect her desicion untill she is ready.But,talk to her about it.I am sue she will understand! ;)
2006-12-28 01:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋