my friend is very jealous of me and copies everything i do is she really a friend?

Question

She just copies everything even tries to steal my boyfriends, we have got into fights but she said she is my true friend and i am confused. Like i have a touge ring and when i got one she went and got one i just thinks she is jealous of me what should i do i need major help!!!!!

Answer 1

True friends don't still your boyfriends. She is definitely jealous of you. No major help needed. Drop her and move all your friends away from her.

Answer 2

Have you given any thought to the fact that you might not know what a real friend is? People who you can trust with your life deserve your friendship. You can't even trust her with your boyfriend, let alone your life. So stop using this poor girl to validate who you are and be strong enough to face life with the possibility to create new and better relationships with other people. At first you may question why let go, well if you know whats good for you, you'll be glad you said goodbye to a bad version of yourself, and hello to a happier you. Try to remember that you are viewed upon by society by the company you keep. Don't you think you deserve the best?

Answer 3

You should feel flattered. She admires you and wants to be like you. Yes, she's jealous too. She's going after your BF because to take him from you would be a major accomplishment. She hasn't got any original thoughts or ideas.
I know this because I had a couple of so called friends like this long ago. Keep a close eye on her. She is not loyal to you. Given the chance she will stab you in the back.

Answer 4

She's feeling left behind. That's because you're doing everything she wants to do.

Having a boyfriend is something every girl wants. So when you beat her to the punch, she's feeling really mad about it, and tries to get back at you by stealing him. I don't know if that works.

BUT....if she tells you that YOU'RE confused, that may be a form of MANIPULATION.

My sis has a friend like that. That friend tries to do everything my sis does, but makes a fool of herself, because she doesn't take care of her personal hygiene and looks really ungroomed, and well, pimply.

Whether she is doing a good job of keeping up, or looking like a total dork, I don't know. But I do know that she is trying to get you to slow down by fighting and telling you you're confused.

I think you should give it more time. Things like this take time. To see if she's really your friend or not. Stealing a girl's boyfriend is not nice. HMPH. That's just mean.

Answer 5

she is not a good friend if she copies you that much but if you want to keep her as a friend, tell her she has too many good things about her that she should work on . she may be jealous but she may also lack self esteem in herself and if you help her build that up she won't need to copy you.

Answer 6

i have been in the same situation. they get on ur nerves and u just want them to have a mind of their own. anytime i asked for help people would just say oh shes just wants to be like you and she is fond of u!!! i hated it. first try and tell her that she should have a mind of her own and if that doesn't work then start copying EVERYTHING she does(just for awhile) u will get on her nerves then tell her how u feel, if that doesn't work find a new friend. good luck

Answer 7

Girls, Girls, Girls. Can't we all just get along? No? Then say sayonara to girlfriend. Even though it is said "flattery is the most sincere compliment", it is not when girlfriend is after your bf.

If she is that needy then you don't need her.

Answer 8

She is not a good friend. Break things with her.

Answer 9

I konw how you feel!!! copy her and do everything like her and say why do you copy me and stuff?? are you ok??

Answer 10

well im sorry to informed you she is not your friend at all she just wants to keep you close so she knows all your moves.trust me i been there too.