So, I go on my college website message board...this guys never seen me...doesnt know me...but he says someone HE knows has seen me before. He's now calling me ugly, fugly, "sloth looking mother f*#ker", etc. I've not done ONE thing to this guy. He can see from my picture I am NOT ugly, so rather he says "Youre just wearing alot of makup" "Your picture is airbrushed". Alright, so what do I say to this AVERAGE looking guy...who's calling ME ugly?
2006-12-27 17:32:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you should not establish any kind of communication ,with this
nobody you don't know,and you should report that incident to
your college board directors,
2006-12-27 17:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Byzantino 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Who is he to give you HIS opinion on how YOU look. And if you were "ugly" [because beauty is in the eye of the beholder] then what does it matter what he thinks? What a lame-o. If you do decide to respond to him then at the end what are you getting out of it? Do you have the need to DEFEND your "beauty?" Girl brush that **** from your shoulder and if you HAVE to respond tell him to get a life and say thank him for reaffirming to the world that there are shallow stupid people that still needed to take a shower to wash their filthiness away.
2006-12-28 01:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by MariJM 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This loser is really not worth your time. There should be someone in charge of the website. You can report him for abusing school property, the site is intellectual property of the school and school policy outlines appropriate behavior. You can also take your complaint to the campus police as harassment and tell them you are in fear of your life. That always gets their attention. But there is nothing you can say to this guy. He gets his jollys at your reaction, the worse thing you can do to him is not respond at all.
2006-12-28 01:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk with him and ask him that what is his problem and if he does not answer or your problem will not be solved then try to get his personnel information and i am sure that you will find something in him or in his background that you can tease him about that. firdtly try this or otherwise just make him embarrased in front of everyone or his friends and just snatch his friends and after this just send him a card where you should write that how you felt when this thing was happening with you and i am sure he will be changed.
2006-12-28 01:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I'd say don't play his game, just say 'fair enough' you have a right to your opinion.
Now if you want to turn the tables how about, by the way you gunna marry that guy you took home the other night?
2006-12-28 05:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by bejay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not stoop down to his level, because that is probably what he wants you to do. He wants to get a rise out of you. Just simply tell him that he is not worth your time in responding to his childish behaviors. If you leave it at that, then he really has nothing to comment about. If you stoop down to his level and start commenting on him, then that is giving him the fuel that he wants. Honey, do not give it to him! He's just being a jerk and has nothing better to do than to put others down because he is not satisfied with himself.
Good Luck with your situation!!
2006-12-28 01:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go pull the wings off some flies.
Maybe you should just tell him you've never seen him before in your life and you hope you never will and then ignore him from now on.
2006-12-28 01:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
choleric~people believe they are never wrong, and there is nothing to discuss, because again they are right.(full-of-it) u have to appeal to them as a fair and right person this will make them happy and then, u have to put panic into them by asking them if they feel your putting them down when you have the chance in front of people they don't want to confront
2006-12-28 01:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything. Hes just messing with your head. You r being too gullable. Hew is flirting with u maybe, in a way to start a conversation with u. HMMMMMMM!!!!
2006-12-28 01:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bandice 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he knows all this stuff about makeup and airbrushing, then tell him it sounds like he is very experienced with all that.
2006-12-28 01:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. I can guarentee you that the only people paying any attention to him are other thick-headed ignoramuses who are so dull they can think of nothing better to do than make you miserable.
2006-12-28 02:07:09 · answer #11 · answered by catty_kitty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋