Last V-day, I wrote a poem to her. It told her indirectly how I felt, but I didn't tell her that it was from me. Instead I told her that it was from a boy, because I really liked her and I didn't want to scare her off.
She was interested in the imaginary guy, but I think she found out it was me and started ignoring me.
What should I do to forget her?
2006-12-27 16:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by m_0hi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well forgetting her is literally impossible..if you love her at all..at all in anyway then u have to let her go..let go means to break all ties..no conversation..no talking..email..pictures..letters..memory of anything that you recieved..it will take time but when u love someone u have to love them enough to let go..if u dont..u are being selfish..crazy right? it gets better trust me
2006-12-27 17:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle Breezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, tough situation here :S
Well, you can either tell her how much she means to you, how much you really love her. If she doesn't want to take that recognition, then she's definitely not worth it. At least you know you've tried telling her that you love her.
In that case, go out and find girls! I don't know what guys generally get up to in their spare time sorry, but you could just spend some time with friends, try forget about that girl by focusing on your friendship with your guy friends, and generally having fun. You'll become distracted- trust me, I've done it before :)
And, don't worry, sooner or later, you'll find another girl to become interested in, of whom, hopefully, will also be interested in you in return :) All of it won't happen overnight of course, or even within a week, but that doesn't mean it will happen over years either. Cheer up, and soon you'll really forget about that girl and eventually be able to move on. She clearly isn't worth stressing over.
Now...if only guys would write me love poems on Valentine's Day lol
2006-12-27 17:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Unefemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing...I'm sorry. It'll be okay. Just go day by day. You'll never forget her, but one day she will be memories of fondness instead of pain.
Maybe you should try finding a new love? If it is meant to be, she'll come back around.
2006-12-27 17:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant. u can try though, occupy ur self so u want think about her so much. just try and think about something other than her it may be heard but it will get easier along the way!
2006-12-27 17:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by dancegirl1014u2c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant for get the one u love im trying to do it my self but trust me its hard just try and date someone talk to them and one day if it is true love then i will come back so im waiting for mine to come back but she is confused.
2006-12-27 17:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋