If you MUST choose between allowing a 16 year old girl and a 34 year old man to have sex OR letting a 16 year old boy have sex with a 34 year old woman, which do you think was more appropriate?
2006-12-27 16:51:14 · 41 answers · asked by evilive 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you comment "neither" i'm not giving you the 10 points. DUH!!
2006-12-27 16:55:02 · update #1
ok so far almost all of you have given me stupid answers in saying "neither". If you are going to say neither then don't answer. Others of you I thank for giving an actual opinion instead of spewing some PC BS. Thanks guys, glad u can read what the question was properly.
2006-12-27 17:18:29 · update #2
i think a 16yr old boy with and older woman is more appropriate than a 16yr old girl with an old man. lots of old guys are pervs, but it would be more difficult to find a perverted old woman cause they can just sell themselves on street corners, whereas old men cannot. thats just my take. i wouldnt do either but the second seems more reasonable than the first.
2006-12-27 17:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by kingswan23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
neither is right...gender is not the issue here. The problem is that whoever is 34 has twice as much life experience as the other person. So the odds are that the younger person will be most suseptible to being nieve and may get manipulated and/or taken advantage of. The emotional state of a 16 girl/guy is extremely extremely different than that of a 34 year old! Don't go there!
2006-12-27 16:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How it makes any difference if a 16 year girl have sex with a 34 year man or 16 years boy have sex with 34 year woman what is important in both cases if both the partners enjoy it or not. Age has nothing to do with sex people indulging in it should be physically & mentally big enough to understand , know & enjoy it.
2006-12-27 17:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what would a 16 year old be doing with a 34 year old of the opposite sex? ok people say age doesn't matter but that's for when you're actually GROWN UP and can think for yourself. 16 is a little to young to know any better than to get in bed with a 34 year old. i mean for all you know this 34 year old is probably a predator who is looking for young naive kids they can get into bed with. and of course its against the law so it is inappropriate both ways
2006-12-27 16:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah both of those are wrong but if I would pick the lesser of the two evils I would pick the 16 year old boy and the 34 year old woman because for one there are less risks for the 16 year old boy and sex to a boy is less about love and more about physical feeling. But still both are REALLY worng
2006-12-27 16:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by gotansas 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In either case it is considered illegal and in either case the 34 year old person is pretty much a horrible person if they would ever do something like that with a 16 year old. I mean, this 16 year old should be getting to have more time to just enjoy life and not be all involved in adult situations. Not to mention that they should get to be in a relationship with someone who is on equal footing with them so that they don't have to worry about being manipulated into something that they aren't ready for.
2006-12-27 17:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by zyllee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
neither is "appropriate", because sex out of marriage is not appropriate. secondly, if a 16 year old girl is attracted to a 34 yr. old man, than she is looking for the father figure she never had. i guarantee you that she never had a father or she had a father she could never please and or never felt accepted by. The same is true for the 16 yr. old boy except that the second reason may be strictly sexually motivated.
2006-12-27 17:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I gather you are about 16?
Neither is appropriate. When you become about 34, you will see why we're telling you this. The mere idea will have your stomach turning and hoping the cops are called...and the dad of the 16 yr old did something about it.
2006-12-27 16:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if 16 year girls or 16 year boys having sex with 34 years woman or man then they will get so many problem in health they become weak day by day
2006-12-27 18:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by khan1974rashid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
letting the 16 yr old boy have sex with a 34 yr old girl is ok, not the other way around. if i had a son id be damn proud if he could pull it off, and if she did get pregnant she could take care of the kid, the 16 yr old girl could not
2006-12-27 17:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋