My boyfriend is scared that I might be with someone else while I'm at school and he is at home. Almost every time that he talks to me when he picks me up he gets a call from his friends telling him of what I was doing at school. Sometimes I feel a lack of trust and it doesn't make any sense, if anyone should be worried it should be me, due to the fact that he has admitted to cheating on two girlfriends before me. But despit all of that I trust him with eveything and I even feel that I would do anything for him. What should I do, because we are talking about getting married after I graduate from school.
2006-12-27 16:18:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as you're not cheating on him, your relationship should be fine and he will begin to trust you as soon as he gets used to being apart. Maybe talk to him and put the marriage thing into reality. Tell him that if he wants to marry you he will have to trust you. Guys are naturally jelous creatures, and we will always have trust issues, so you also have to understand that. You should take control of the situation and hit it head on to eliminate the possibility of it getting any worse.
2006-12-27 16:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chanclito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mt personal opinion is that a healthy relationship is based on trust, respect, honesty, and sincerity. If he does not trust you and is always checking up on you and has people reporting then there is a good chance that the qualities for a healthy relationship are not there, I would reassess the whole thing, do I want a man that does not trust me, That embarrasses me by having me watched. What other control issues does he have and what if someone lies to him or thinks they saw something took it out of context and told him ? how would he react to that? Do I want or need these worries. Do I need to not hug a friend because i could be accused of cheating? Good Luck
2006-12-27 16:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that your boyfriend feels insecure about your relationship. Trust is something that is built through experiences in life that we have. You two should not worry about things you cannot change. Bottom line, you have to draw a line and say to yourself if he does or says something unacceptable you won't tolerate it.
2006-12-27 16:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Zacklee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there!!!! it replaced right into a three 12 months conflict. i'm SO happy I dumped him by using fact once you stick around, all that detrimental capability in basic terms turns you in to this unhappy, annoyed, insecure person. in basic terms bounce off of that relationship. have faith me, what he's doing is so incorrect and you should advance lots greater advantageous than he will ever do with that whore.
2016-10-19 01:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically let him know without trust there is no relationship, you got to have that trust. Also sometimes men can feel very insecure just reassure him about how you feel.
2006-12-27 16:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by heartbroken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, get married to a habitual cheater who manifests his guilt on you, you are going to have such a wonderfully messed up life its not even funny
2006-12-27 16:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him its too much drama
2006-12-27 16:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Beverly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋