she broke up with me like a month and a half ago and she got another boyfriend 2 weeks after we broke up and she still tells me she loves me, and tells me she wants to go back out with me but she has a boyfriend and she wont break up with him even though she says she will just give her time she says.... every time she see's me when she isnt with her boyfriend she hugs and kiss's me, even somtimes when she is with him she sneaks away to call me and tell me that she loves me i dont get it what does she want and if i talk or hang out with other girls she gets mad and wont talk to me
2006-12-27 16:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by remz88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like she enjoysplaying a control game.
You dont wanto to be with someone who behave this way
Let her know straight that your not into her behaviour and that your not interested in her anymore (and stick to that - be strong even if your tempted for a fling or she tries to seduce you). It will be worth being clear of her in the long run, and the sooner she`s out of the picture, the sooner someone better can come along.
2006-12-27 16:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yr ex girlfriend is one selfish b... She broke up w/ you but now she wanted a cake and eats it too. Now you can 't move on because she plays you good. If she loves you she would not break up w/ you to begin with. She doesn't even want to break it up w/ her current boyfriend. She called you when she was w/ her bf that shows she is also a cheater. Let go of yr feeling for her. Move on with yr life. There are many fishes in the sea, you don't want this much drama,indecisive b... like her.
2006-12-28 00:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by stars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you keep letting her lead you on, she is enjoying her life and messing with yours, go out and spend some time with other girls and if she gets mad and doesn't talk to you then so what, you are not getting back together with her anyway
2006-12-28 01:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't need her, tell her that its messed up what she is doing to you and that its not fair, because all it really looks like is that she can't make up her mind. tell her and give her an ultimatum and let her know that she can't lead you on and that she has a man why can you have yourself someone, and stay away from her because its truly unfair to you.
2006-12-28 00:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU ARE ALLOWING HER TO DO THIS. YOU ARE
NOT TOGETHER, AND SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND,BUT STILL
IN YOUR FACE. TELL ME SHE PLAYING WITH YOU, AND
THAT NOT GOOD. TIME FOR YOU TO LET HER BE IN
YOUR PAST, TIME TO MOVE ON TO THE FUTURE, SHE
PLAYING A DANGEROUS GAME THAT SHE PLAYING. AND THAT NOT GOOD FOR ANY ONE. BUT AS LONG AS YOU LET
HER KEEP PLAYING YOU, SHE WILL. TIME TO CUT HER
LOOSE. SHE THE ONE THAT BROKE IT OFF, SO IT REALLY
IS HER LOST NOT YOURS.MOST IMPORTANT IS ABOUT
RESPECT.SHE NOT GIVING HIM OR YOU THAT.
2006-12-28 00:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's like the women I've encountered, they get a rise out of it. Just their little way of dominating.
2006-12-28 00:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by down_and_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. She's just trying to torment you.
2006-12-28 00:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows youre not over her
2006-12-28 00:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Beverly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her....
2006-12-28 00:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋