What does this mean. He cheats on her and she won't leave him or kick him out after she almost kills herself?. She was chicken
2006-12-27 16:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by Tonya S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm the one he is cheating with, he told me she's weak , He told her we were just friends and she went balistic. He didn't want to here her yelling and nagging so he said he never told her for that reason. soryy bch. she cried if she's a frien why can't I meet her. he told me everything .
2006-12-27 16:18:02 · update #1
gettin buzy doesn't mean Ho HO HO
2006-12-27 17:01:21 · update #2
Its suppose to mean whatever happens you both will work it out and see if you can work on your marriage....now days...too easy for divorce ...too many people cheat no one has morals anymore_
2006-12-27 16:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering that he is cheating on his wife with you, then he is the weak one. Why would you want to be with a man like that?
You stated that she won't kick him out, well, then, why doesn't he leave her? Again...weak. Perhaps he is now saying that he cannot leave her because of her "mental issues".
You also stated that she wanted to meet you, which leads me to believe that the two of you don't know each other. So, how do you know that anything he has told you is true? Because you and he have a "different kind of relationship"? You are simply sleeping with a married man. That is it.
Odds are...he's the chicken.
Best luck and take care. I hope everything works out for all three of you.
2006-12-28 00:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that has low self esteem and feel inferior to others feel "unworthy" and have a constant fear, conscience of unconscience, of being abandoned, or left alone. she probably experience abandonment somewhere in here childhood that left here with that fear. these people dont love themselves and therefore require love and acceptance from others. they are even willing to stay in abusive situations instead of going thru more abandonment. they feel trapped cause they dont know what to do. they need friends to help them make the tough decisions. both of them should get some good counceling and if he is not will, then she should go and take a friend with her. the councelor will help her know what her options are and will help her with the self esteem issues and fear issues. . if her husband is unwilling to work on the relationship and quit going out on her, she will need to seperate for a time so they both can get their priorities straight. it is often too hard to make the tough decisions, when you are living with someone and there is alot of strive and argueing going on be there for her and help her make the right decisions.hope this helps.
2006-12-28 00:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better or worse means going thru the circumstances together no matter what.
being cheated on...it could be a test...if you've gone thru it. good for you. but if you almost ended up killing yourself, that's like a dead end in your relationship.(it's abusive or suicidal)
she might be caught in an abusive situation without the physical abuse...just the emotional.
she needs some Help.
intervention could help
2006-12-28 00:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by me_myself_mwah. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she thought about her vows that she had committed to when they got married i wouldn't say that she was chicken i would say that she had giving a lot of thought to what she was doing and realized that she had so much more to live for.
2006-12-28 00:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
or better or for worse...everyone must decide their own limits... even the bible said honor your spouse.
i exceeded my for better or worse when my ex started treating my child badly and refused to get help.
ideally for better or worse means no matter what comes a couples way they will stay together.... but i think that is in the context of both partners giving their best to the marriage... cheating is not doin that... for better or for worse does not give one spouse the excuse to be an absolute *** to the other....
2006-12-28 00:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want a man who is cheating on his wife to leave and be with you? So he can cheat on you? Would it be easier to scratch your own heart out? Sleeping with him is one thing loving him is another. HE CHEATS ON HIS WIFE. HE LIES. You think you are so special he wouldn't lie to you? Your kitty is so sweet it can change the leopards spots? LOL
2006-12-28 05:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is playing you-he isn't honest with her,yet if he ain't leaving her for you,sounds like they will be together regardless,and don't think you are the first ho he has cheated with and then lied to.lol
2006-12-28 00:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that unfortunately her self-esteem is so low that she cannot even imagine deserving something better out of life. Sad.
2006-12-28 00:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people are so afraid of being alone that they will 'put up with it' as long as he comes home (not my line of thinking at all), but it's a fairly common occurance.
2006-12-28 00:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd leave if he cheated, and tell her not to take her life. it's not worth it over this man ( pray to the lord for guidance.....)
2006-12-28 00:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by c_aguilar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋