What should you do if you are 27, with no job, no money, no skills, no friends, no girlfriend,?

Question

no one loves you, not even your parents, and the only person who will talk to you is your stalker?

Answer 1

Be very nice to my parents because it cheaper and worry free? At least you still have a stalker to talk with. Most of a 27 years old out there who live with their parents probable even don’t have that. You are blessed, be grateful, and thank God. You will make it.

Answer 2

Hello,
I suggest that you pick yourself up and stop feeling sorry for yourself dear. I sense that your in this depressed mode for some reason.
First of all you know that your parents love you so we've covered that base. Now you state you have no job.. well hun everyone has a skill and some know how about themselves. What is your hobby? If it's something you can do then why not look into the area of work.
No money? Well once you get yourself into something you enjoy and like , you'll get paid and have money.
Skills? well we already firgure that out.
No friends? dear you have friends call them up get with them. Your friends can be a portal for landing jobs. They might know of someone hiring.. it's called networking hun.

And about your stalker.. I suggest that you leave well enough alone on that.
Summary: Suga you need to collect yourself here a new year is soon to come and there's no better time to start a new YOU!! The only one who can change or have control over what's going on is YOU!

Good luck dear and listen cheer up would you..

Answer 3

Contact your local unemployment agency and get training in something, then get a job, make friends at work and figure out if you are the person you want and need to be , doing the best you can with your life, If the answer is no then get some mental health help or change the things about you that you dont like, Call the cops about the stalker, If your state has stalker laws!

Answer 4

There is a lot that you can do love. I think you need to start from the inside. Sure you can go and find a job and go back to school like all the others say. But, that doesn't do much it gives you money...but money can't buy you happiness. There is obviously something else bothering you, you need to deal with that first. I'm sure your parents love you. Maybe they're just disappointed that you're not doing what they expected. I know parents can be harsh that way. My mom seemed as if she hated me, and looked at me with disgust, til I moved out and applied for college. She actually smiles and says that she's proud of me again. That made me happier. There were many times where I thought I didn't have any friends either. You just need to find something that makes you happy.

Answer 5

Whoa, you are pretty rough on yourself!

First things first. What kind of work have you been doing? What are your interests? What do you enjoy doing as a hobby? The best way to find a job is to do something that interests you so it isn't so hard to get up in the mornings.
make a list like this:

What I like to do Jobs that would use these skills

ex- Fishing Sell fishing supplies
Work on boats
Build boats
Pilot tourist boats


Once you get started, this could be a Big list. Then look for jobs in those areas. Look at the local Jobs and Human Services dept, public employment agencies, the local newspaper etc. Don't forget Monster.com etc. There are jobs out there for you, but you need to make the connection. When you get a job and some dollars in your pocket, you will feel better about yourself and your situation. Friends and love often follow happy people.
Also, it sounds like you need to make peace with yourself first. Do you feel guilty about something? Has something traumatic happened to you? If so, there are social service agencies to help.
Check your local phone book for hotlines if you don't want to work face to face. Sometimes, it is easier to talk with a stranger on the phone than to talk to people you know.
Best wishes for a speedy recovery.

Answer 6

Sounds like you're having a bad day. You are so young to be so sad. Maybe your stalker isn't dangerous- make coffee and invite them in. Things will be better in the morning even if night seems to last forever. Love you!

Answer 7

This is similar to a joke i had read/heard.
There was a man who had loans on his head, he was fired from his job by his boss during the day. he came to his house only to see his wife in bed with someone else, feels totally dejected and goes to a bar and gets drunk feels like committing suicide so order a drink and pour poison in it which he had bought with the last money he had, he was about gulp down the drink when suddenly a bully enters and drinks the glass with its contents.
Dont feel sad there is always a second chance. see you have so many friends who are replying to you, isnt it? so take their advice. THE SUN IS GOING TO RISE AND ITS GOING TO BE MORNING now

Answer 8

at least you have a stalker, so you got something going for you

now go to school and get an education, then get a job, then buy a girlfriend and make some friends and stuff

there you go, life solved

Answer 9

FIRST THING TO DO, IS GET A JOB, THEN YOU WILL SEE'THAT EVERYTING ELSE WILL COME IN PLACE. AND ALSO IF YOU CAN GO BACK TO SCHOOL TO GET SOME SKILLS, THEN YOU WILL MEET PEOPLE AS YOU GO OUT
AND GET THESE THINGS. IM SORRY THAT YOU AND YOUR
FAMILY DONT TALK. AND FOR THE STALKER THAT NOT GOOD EITHER.

Answer 10

basically your useless......dont use everyone as an excuse for your laziness...because people dont love you doesnt mean you stop living....love yourself and you'll see how all will change....there are lots of people in your life or coming into your life thats going to love you unconditionally...your still very young...so get your *** up...stop feeling sorry for yourself...do something about it....get a job ...get a life....i dont mean to be rude ...but again i say get your *** up and do something bout it....and careful with the stalker.....