How do i tell my parents that i am pregnant?

Question

I am 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we just recently started to have intercourse a lil after my 17th birthday. I was always wanting to wait till marriage but that was a hard decision to follow. My parents want so much for me and i wanted more for myself also. My boyfriend and i always use protection but one day the condom broke! My period is a week late right now and it is usually regular. I'm not sure if i am pregnant or not but im worried that if i am...i wouldnt know how to tell my family! I know that no matter what i want to keep the baby but im just worried of their reactions! Whats a good way to break it to them?

Answer 1

Get a pregnancy test. The e.p.t comes with two. Use one on a Monday and use the other on the following Monday. Waite another week before you take the tests. You might be irregular because of the fact that you are now starting to have sex. Different hormones and things like stress or change of diet can make you irregular also. You will know for sure after 3 weeks of no period.

"Don't jump the gun"

Tell them if you are sure.. Tell them both at same time and start with.................

I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we love/like and plan to get married or be together.
Then tell them that you are sexually active with him and only him, but only since you turned 17 and that you have always used protection.
Explain that you want them to understand that you and your boyfriend have discussed the future with or without kids and that you and your boyfriend agree that what ever happends you both will make that proper decisions for the child.
Then tell them.... He was wearing a condom and the condom broke, I know that I am pregnant and I do plan to keep it no matter what.
Then cry a little, but be adult and strong.
End it with.....
No matter what I hope you both will accept me, my child and my boyfriend, because I really want you both to be as great of grandparents to this child as you have been parents.

Compliment with guilt with reality....
Good luck
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This might be wierd from a dude....
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Answer 2

I am proud of you for wanting to face up to your responsibilities. It is so hard to know what is the right thing to do when one gets in over their heads. It is no shame to choose adoption. That way you will give both your child and another couple the gift of her life. If you are pregnant you are a mother already, be the best mother you can be, and don't let anyone harm your baby. Two wrongs NEVER make a right.

You sound like a nice girl that let her emotions take her places she should not go (been there, done that). Chances are you have good parents who love you very much, and have taught you right from wrong. I would tell the parent I had the best relationship with first. They may blow their cap and say some amazing things. Try not to let it hurt you. You have dealt them a mighty blow, and they will have to mourn the death of their expectations and immediate dreams for you. But, they will recuperate and be your strongest allies. You will need them over the next few years, so don't let this drive you apart if you can help it. Do not try to defend your actions, and just put the truth before them. Most people can handle many situations they never thought they would have to. You might want to talk to them about it anyway, even if you are not pregnant. You don't want to be in this situation again a few months down the road.

Answer 3

First off you need to take a pregnancy test before you get all worried. Second your period could be late because of the amount of stress you are putting on yourself just thinking about this. You need to try to relax. Now, if it comes back positive, I can tell you right now, there is NO EASY way to tell them. I was 19 when I had my son. If you are pregnant, it's best you tell them right away. The longer you sit and think about what's the right way, and when's the right time, will make you even more nervous. If you think your ready to have the responsibility of having a baby, then there really isn't anything to worry about. Your parents will know that this is something you believe you can do. Now even if you are pregnant, doesn't mean that all your hopes and dreams just went down the sh***er, it just means they got put on hold for a little bit. Don't worry so much. Take a test first then go from there. Good luck!

Answer 4

A lot depends on the type of relationship you have with your parents. I couldn't tell my parents either but my boyfriend had no problem telling them (we both went over there together). Would your boyfriend be willing to go with you and support you? Can you talk easily to your mom? My daughter is 23 and even though we have a very close relationship I know she would still be afraid to tell me 'cause she would think I would be disappointed in her. I have always told her that no matter what I will always love her and that will never change. Your parents will always love you. Yes, they may be disappointed initially because as parents we always have big dreams for our children. And you can still have more for yourself. You just have to be strong. A baby is a life "changing" event but not a life "ending" event. If you're still in school, stay there and finish high school. Be honest with your parents. You already know you want to keep the baby. Be strong when you tell them that. Tell them you know you will need help at times and ask if they would be willing to help you. Be sure to find out your boyfriends reaction to this news and find out how much he is going to be supportive of you. You can raise this child with him or without him. Keep going after your dreams. If it turns out you are not pregnant, keep in mind the next time something like this happens, that there is the "morning after pill". You can get it from your local public health department without your parents knowing. You can also get birth control also. Good reaction or bad from your parents, honesty is always best. Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 5

The best thing I could tell you is be honest. You may want to wait to be sure but honey you need to be up front with you folks.
Let them know what is going on it will affect them also!!
Check out your phone book for local clinics that do free testing, you are only a week late so you will have to wait before going in but they have great counselors too. We had one in my hometown called Life Line. Sometimes having sex will cause your cycle to change. Whatever you decide to do make sure that you are certain that is what you want and do not let others make the decision for you!!!!!!!! Good luck Sweetie it will all work out

Answer 6

Start off by taking a deep breath, I can imagine the position you are in. My friend's period was a week late once, almost a week actually. She thought for sure she was pregnate. To my knowledge worrying can make it seem like forever, especially if you're COUNTING the days that it's not coming since you're actually worried about it. The thing is, wait a couple more days before drawing to conclusions. Then if you're positive, I'm sure if you're parents are like any other, they couldn't do anything worse than disown you, which will not happen :P. Do it the way you think your parents will take it best.

Answer 7

When I told my mom I was pregnant (also at 17) I did it at the doctor's office. That way he was there to answer our questions and act as a mediator. I was SOOOO worried that they would be really mad, but they weren't. They were happy to have a grandson. I don't know how your parents will react but I'm pretty sure it won't be as bad you are expecting. I now have three kids, I married the father, and finished college. It doesn't end your life if don't let it. I wish you the best.

Answer 8

Find out for sure first, then worry about it.
If you have to tell them, which you will have to do if you are eventually. They will be mad and upset, that is normal and to be expected it.

It may be easier to write them a letter: Something like Mom Dad,
This is really hard to say and I know when you read this you will be dissappointed in me and all I can say is that I'm sorry.
I'm pregnant and I want to keep the baby.
You can leave it soemwhere where they will find it while you go to school or somewhere to allow the inital shock to where off or hand it to them.

Answer 9

First of all take a visit to your gynecologist to confirm that you are pregnant. If the test is positive take the sonogram home and sit your parents don't and tell them that this is a picture of your new grandbaby. That is how I told my parents that I was pregnant with my second child. Just hope for the best and goodluck with everything. God will take care of you.

Answer 10

I think you should just tell them right away. If not your dad then your mom. It is much easier. You will feel relieved once you tell them. They might be mad at first but after a while they will come around and realize that they will have a grandchild who's life they want to be in. Good luck I hope that helps...it worked for me