how to deal with a mother and a sister tat are being a little too pushi and hard on you if you are dating a underage girl? is there anything wrong with it. if i love her and she does love me back? We both are committed. =) and willing to fight any obstacle!!
i need some help, advise, and/or tips to fight for her LOVE. and still be happy at home.
2006-12-27 15:14:22 · 13 answers · asked by JH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to pursue whatever you feel in your heart. Who you love is none of your mother or sister's business. And just because she is underage now, does not mean the age difference will last forever. My husband and I are 10 years apart and it has never had an impact on the relationship. I would tell your mom and sister to back off. There is no age limitations on love!
2006-12-27 15:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just feel that you need to really look at the situation a little bit more. If you really love her maybe you can lay off for a while - til she is of age. Let space be a good judge of what you feel for her.It is risky to date someone that is underage - they call it jail bait for a reason. Be careful of this situation and just remember that your family may just be looking out for your best interests. Look at the fact that they love you too and dont want to see anything happen to you. Younger girls can think that they know what they want but it doesnt mean that it is what they need.
2006-12-27 23:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by gem753 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the age. My son met a lady at the age of 16, she is twice his age. He did this behind my back yet I knew just felt at the time I couldn't do any thing about it. I was wrong and he has suffered. He married her at 18 and she cheated on him and treated him like her son so many times. I tried to tell them both that it wouldn't work. No body listened. Well he is know fighting for a divorce due to he finds her to old now. They have been a part for 3 yrs and she will not give him a divorce out of just plain meanness. He told me he wished he at listened to me. If she is younger than you, you can still love her just wait for her to turn of age, be the adult and wait for her. If it is meant to be than her turning 18 will not lose your love. Good luck Please do the right thing for the both of you. Will save you both pain.
2006-12-27 23:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by newwingsfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because its against the law. Can't you find someone who is at least legal? If she is close to 18 I would advise you to cool things off with her until she is at least legal. I don't know how old you are, but do you really think a teenage age know the true meaning of love? Probably not.
2006-12-27 23:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be your Mother and Sisters are just worried that because the girl is "under aged" - she may not understand what love is - or in other words, is it possible that the girl is probably not able to distinguish between sympathy/affection/love? - and that is why they are worried that reality could hurt both of you and are trying to prevent that from happening ? May be you should ask them "What is your real concern?"
2006-12-27 23:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by 2-cents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how underaged she is. That would really make all the difference, because if she's really way underaged then your family is just looking out for you, but if she's slightly underaged, then your family is just too much in your business and they need to mind their own.
2006-12-27 23:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them time and once they see how happy you make each other if your Mum and Sis really wany you to be happy then they will accept the situation not that I think there is anything wrong with it.Love conquers all!
2006-12-27 23:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DO NOT MIND A JAIL CELL FOR A YEAR OR TWO ON CHARGES OF UNLAWFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH A MINOR, CONTINUE THIS BEHAVIOR. YOU MIGHT EVEN BE ABLE TO SHARE A CELL WITH BUBBA, AND YOU WILL HAVE A DIFFERENT VIEW OF LIFE WHEN YOU GET OUT, THAT IS IF YOU GET OUT. MEN WHO HAVE SEX WITH UNDERAGE KIDS ARE NOT POPULAR IN MOST JAILS, AND VIEWED AS ABNORMAL ON THE STREETS
2006-12-27 23:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you and her are happy it doesnt matter. because you can be with a gurl that is your age and they will still find something wrong. family are the wrong ones for opinions for a relationship. but if her family is comfortable with it than that is all that matters. keep loving her unconditionally. because love doenst come with age,color,sex or religion.
2006-12-27 23:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by ashley g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing rong with it if u love her but they think tht u will take advantage of her emotionally and sexually. its sort illegal in most states if ur 18 and she's 16 or younger but dont worry about it. u guys shud get ur own place where u can b happy.
2006-12-27 23:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Kickgrass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋