2006-12-27 14:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by littlequeen703 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No other way. Virgin walls are very tight especially before the penis gets to the hymen.
Most men can tell because of the tightness . Also there should be spots of blood. Which is a sign most men look for before starting their victoria dance.
2006-12-27 14:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by B1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are worried about whether you are or not, you actually have to worry more about what crazy ways they think they know to tell, not so much any real way to tell.
And she's right... if you're pregnant...
As to hurting, any athletic girl will likely not hurt. Even horse riding is enough athletic activity to break the hymen and take away the most common source of pain. And if you have a fair amount of good foreplay first, you will likely be well-lubricated removing dryness from the list of sources of pain. That leaves him not taking any step to lubricate at least the head before attempting insertion, but if you shift a bit and make him fumble about just a little, touching you with it and wobbling it about as you move a little will likely transfer enough of your own lubrication to him to ease it for you. Don't be tempted to let him do you dry at the start just to seem tighter and more likely a virgin because it will rip your skin inside a little and if he has any STD/HIV problem, you will be vastly more likely to catch it.
As to whatever crazy ideas he has about how to tell, lol, you're on your own 'cause I was never stupid enough to "learn" any! One thought though... trying to convince him you are a virgin is likely to do just the opposite. And the harder you try, the more he will believe the opposite. So try playing that cool.
And maybe look around for someone who doesn't care about that. He might have a "sweet" reason like he is one too and wants to go there together with you, but more likely he just doesn't want to be intimidated by you comparing what he does to what some other guy did... though he'd NEVER put it quite THAT way.
2006-12-27 22:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by roynburton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy has no way of feeling that you're a virgin or not. No man in the world can tell by having sex with you.
2006-12-27 23:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jenr R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your doctor might be able to notice that you've been penetrated but as far as sexual partners they will not be able to tell weather your a virgin or not. secondly dont worry about wether your a virgin or not. thats your decision and no one should make you feel bad about what you choose to do with it. be safe and use protection if you do. good luck
2006-12-27 23:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell them or they could check by feeling for the protective layer of skin that will not be there if you lost your virginity or when you have sex and you dont bleed
2006-12-27 22:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just know!!!
2006-12-27 22:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they put it in you and it doesn't hurt.
if your pregenant.
haha
2006-12-27 22:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋