Could he possibly love me? Me and my ex are only friends, but still?
2006-12-27 14:34:18 · 39 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no way. No normal man would allow, or even suggest that.
He apparently is insensitive to your feelings or isn't worried about your ex making a move on you, or even worse making you fall for him again.
Maybe he wants a 3 way, but most guys wants 2 girls + 1 guy (himself)
2006-12-27 14:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by thedawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the he possibly loving you. As far as your ex moving in not a good idea. only friends okay, but this sounds like a decision both you and your husband should be making and you sound a little unsure of this.
2006-12-27 14:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow it. Once you've put closure to your past relationship that's it. It would be too difficult for you to share a home with 2 men that you have been intimate with. Tell your husband to offer the spare room to someone who is neutral in your lives. It's the best way for all.
2006-12-27 14:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he trying to test you or something?! If my husband proposed thistype of thing, it would be because he was trying to test me. He gets jealous if we run into an ex at the grocery store or something-like I can plan something like that! Good luck, if ya'll are that hard up on money, I would suggest a neutral party to move in, that NEITHER of you have dated!
2006-12-27 14:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who could possibly love you? Your ex or your hubby? You need to re-word the question. I cannot for the life of me imagine any man wanting their wife's ex to move in. Unless he has threesome fantasies. How bizarre.
2006-12-27 14:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's putting you in this position to temp you to do something wrong with your ex. or he could be doing it to show you he trust you enough to do that you should trust him. Hmmmm either way not a good situation and your husband has ulterior motives for this...
2006-12-27 14:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know the best answer to this one. Trust your instincts, & know that no amount of money is worth ruining a relationship over.
2006-12-27 14:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my ex platonically for like three years. The temptation wasn't even there, because I knew how gross he really was.
2006-12-27 14:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds so bizarre to me. Keep your marriage sacred and don't allow this to happen even if you and your ex are only friends.
2006-12-27 14:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to test your loyalty? there's NO WAY i would be playing along with that.. if you want this relationship to last sometimes the ex just cant be in the picture AT ALL... hope all goes well
2006-12-27 14:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋