ok i am a 36d in my chest and to me it seems like that is the only reason boys talk to me.I feel like having and talking about sex is the only way to make boys like me so i do it.I am in the 8th grade i wanna feel special what do i do? Please no stupid answers.
2006-12-27 14:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by *Chocalate Drop* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't have to talk to them about sex and stuff like that. The boys that you want are the ones that will like you for who you are and the inner part of you. Once you find that person, you'll know. Just be patient and don't talk dirty to any boys or they will not respect you for who you are. Boys will be boys unless you treat them like a man ... with respect and they will respect you back.
2006-12-27 14:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay we'll it's is common for you to feel that way. Being in the 8th grade could be very challenging as far as the boys go.We'll don't allow them to make you feel that way.First of all having a 36d chest is not a bad thing, and you can be very beautiful and smart without having sex/talking about sex with the boys.If you respect yourself and love yourself more you will have the power to be strong minded.And one day you will find someone who will really care about you.I mean really care and your chest won't mean a thing.Respect yourself and you will find yourself with a good outcome at the end of all this obstacles in life.LOVE YOURSELF!
2006-12-27 15:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by marty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways to minimize the look of your chest with the right clothing. Of course, nothing low cut. Talk to a sales person about it or just go try some different things on. Be yourself and don't give in to the sex idea. DON'T even talk about it. That way no one will get the wrong idea of you. FOCUS really hard on all of the wonderful things about you. Talk positively to yourself. Tell yourself over and over, outloud, that you are a wonderful person and just pretend you are talking to your best friend. Remember this...you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you in return. Hugs!
2006-12-27 14:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason 's why you shouldn't be thinking about sex right now
- Your numbers are going to be so high by the time you get to 12th grade your name will be HOE
- Every guy willbe done had you, you won;t have a date to the prom
- If you pick one guy to talk to you should be ok depends on how many you've already been with
- Baby girl love yourself
forget the attention, because of what you are doing it won't last you'll destroy your name
I can't express enough why you shouldn't do this
If you need someone to talk to Im me email me.
2006-12-27 14:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by alluremn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courtney R
Concentrate on you liking and respecting YOU !!
Not boys liking you just cause you have a large chest. At your age most boy’s hormones are in overdrive, so developing meaningful relationships may be hard with the boys. . DO NOT tolerate boys pawing on you, just for attention, respect yourself more that that. Obviously you don’t like how you are acting now,, so don’t act that way. You have brains use them. You will find “boys” aren’t worth the time or effort when it lowers your self-esteem
2006-12-27 14:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear i can completely understand ur situation...its typical of most teenagers to feel this way during their teen years, but some handle it better than others thts where the difference lies...first of all tell ur self that you are special, think of all the blessings you have got in ur life rather than counting on ur weakness. Other see you as you see yourselves. Do not give anything more seriousness than it actually has..take everything easily. And boys of ur age will always have relationships in the back of their head its not their problem..it will pass with the age...u are special in ur own way...dont let anythingelse make u feel other wise :)
2006-12-27 14:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Smiling_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl..since you're in 8th grade, most boys at this age tend to get attracted to physical features. dont feel sad about it, it means that you're attractive!many girls would die to have a 36D! focus on your personality. personality is individual, unique , and it will make you special.i'm sure you have something good in you that some *smart* boys will see someday aside from your 36D. show your best personalities and YOU yourself have to also feel that your personality is what makes you special not your boobs! when you believe in that, others will too.
dont think too much.
2006-12-27 15:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the only reason that they would like u for is your chest or sex they are not the ones for you. don't settle for anything that you dont deserve. girls are people not a thing. If they stare at your chest too much try a higher cut shirt. plus, 8th grade is way too young to have sex
2006-12-27 14:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL STOP ALL THE SEX TALK, YOUR ONLY IN 8TH
GRADE. THAT RIGHT THERE DOES NOT MAKE YOU CUTE,
NOR DOES IT MAKE YOU SEXY. ACT YOURSELF, YOU KNOW THE WAY YOU ACT AT HOME. BE NORMAL, DON'T
TRY TO BE SOMEBODY YOUR NOT. SO NEXT TIME YOU GO
TO SCHOOL, STOP THE SEX TALK, THEY WILL SEE THE DIFFERENCE. TALK ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON IN SCHOOL,
AFTER SCHOOL. GET YOURSELF IN TO SOME KIND OF AN
ACTIVITY OR SPORTS SO YOU WILL BE BUSY AND AWAY
FROM THE BOYS. DON'T BE LITTLE YOURSELF. WHEN YOU GRADUATE FROM JR. HIGH AND GO TO HIGH SCHOOL DON'T DO THE SAME THING, LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES, BE MORE MATURE OR THEY WILL START CALLING YOU NAMES LIKE ( HOE) AND ALL THE NAMES THEY USE. GOOD LUCK!! AND BE STRONG, BE GOOD,
NO MORE SEX TALK.
2006-12-27 14:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has good qualities so just focus on them not the negative
2006-12-27 14:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋