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I'm bi-confused....and NOT proud of it.

2006-12-27 14:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Well at least I still like gurls...

2006-12-27 14:35:14 · update #1

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Yea it does seem like it. 1 person in my family, and ppl at my skool....ive noticed that

2006-12-27 14:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kj 3 · 0 1

okay, this question is simple, people have started noticing that being gay isn't a bad thing, and being bisexual is a step into the pond, homosexuality has been under the public view, and it's been exploited. More and more ppl are "becoming" bi because it's socially acceptable, liking a guy isn't a bad thing and you shouldn't be ashamed of it. accepting it is the best possible answer,and who knows, you may find that you don't like being "confused" and drop the subject completely. E.E.Cummings once said that "to be yourself in a world that tries to make you like everyone else is to fight the hardest batlle of your life." that isn't the full quote but you get what it means. Unfortunately the average american is prone to following the crowd and right now that crowd is running headlong into homosexual practices. oh well, it's kind of a blessing and a curse, it's the civil rights movment of our generation and hopefully my kids won't have to worry about this kind of crap.

2006-12-27 23:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by luverboy lol 2 · 0 0

I think it has more to do with its the in thing that's why it seems like there is more people out there that are becoming bi... Take females for instance.. Its cool now to kiss another girl in front of the guys, the guys eat it up.. Instant attention, even if its the wrong kind of attention.

I think its natural to be curious. But if you are not proud of it, obviously its probably something you don't really desire but you are just curious about.

2006-12-27 22:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Issym 5 · 0 1

The culture changes with the times. It was perfectly acceptable back in Ancient Rome and Greece for everyone to have sexual relations with both genders. We're just coming out of a very conservative era and so people are being more open to the world and themselves.

I hope you can resolve things for yourself. You can be attracted somewhat to the same sex and never follow through with it or need to do so. Only you can decide that for yourself.

2006-12-27 22:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brian W 2 · 1 0

I'm proud of my sexuality because it's mine. A lot of the bi people you see today are just people trying to be cool because it's become in. However since it is "in" the real ones feel safer admitting to it.

2006-12-27 22:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1 1

i think people have always been more curious. it's just becoming more socially acceptable to admit to it and to talk about it.

heck, i'm 32 and just recently realized that i have been in denial all my life.. i have realized that i am looking for love, and that love could come from either male or female..

for me, it's not about whether a person has a penis or a vagina.. it's about love, trust, respect, communication, and compatible values and attitudes..

you don't have to feel a lack of pride for your feelings. you are who you are and you feel what you feel. it's not like you chose this..

just be careful if you decide you want to experiment sexually with anyone..

2006-12-27 22:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0 0

it is just that more people are admitting it partly due to the internet,
gay.com, personal ads and stuff you can meet others so much eaiser, its the way to go man

2006-12-27 22:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by gunnerbstrong 3 · 0 0

It's sad that some people hate themselves because of their sexuality...
I hope you come to terms with your sexuality and learn to accept it.

2006-12-27 22:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by MCRlover12 2 · 0 0

true that more and more ppl becoming bi

2006-12-27 22:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by tara tara 3 · 0 1

just more are coming out. More accepted.

2006-12-27 22:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 1 0

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