Ive been with my boy friend for a little over a year and been living with him for half a year. We still act like high school kids who are in love but keep up with all the bills and house work. So we pretty much live as adults but are in love like kids. Are we still in the "newley wed" faze (but not married) or have we passed that mark?
Opinions are more than welcome.
2006-12-27 13:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh I don't know about that. My Best Beloved and I have been "married" for 26 almost 27 years and we're still like newlyweds. It's lovely to keep the spark in a relationship. Every few weeks I'm still surprised with flowers. I wish you a long and loving union. Blessings.
2006-12-27 14:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are starting off because not paying the bills lead some couples to say okay that's enough and move on. The real test of some relationships comes when the money gets short or one person looses their job. Keep doing what you are doing in this area.
Yep, that's keeping the love alive. Nothing wrong with being lovey dovie. There are animals that mate for life and we humans could learn a lot from them. And you ARE adults keep enjoying each other and keep learning about each other -- that never stops no matter how long you live together you will always continue to grow and know each other.
Encourgage each other in your endeavors, talk about them and how they are going to benefit the individual as well as you as a couple. What sacrifices might have to be made so and so forth and don't begin to take each other for granted.
2006-12-27 21:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by cajun7_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget where you are now, think about where you want to be in the future. How long will you be happy as a live in "girlfriend" Relationships are great, but begin with the end in mnd. He may very well love you, and vice versa, but that does not mean he will always consider whats best for you. What can I say, men are like that. State what you want early in a relationship. That way in the end you wont look back and be sad/ mad about what you didn't get. Men only do what you let them, if you let him derail your thoughts, you will be sorry.
2006-12-27 21:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by act as if 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait just wait till hes comfortable w u really comfy wish u the best but dont stop your career for him
2006-12-27 21:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happy then what's the problem?
2006-12-27 23:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋