Ladies, why is it that when women these days are found to be in possession of sex toys, (IE a vibrator or dildoo) other women just smile giggle and basically accept it. Most men think it's cool too. But is a guy has a pocket ussy, or other masturbation aid, we are ultra gross and judged. Yet it is all too well known that 100% of guys masturbate. We all do it, but if we involve a toy into the equation we are somehow gross?!?! Women do it and it's sexy?!?!?
I'm a good looking guy, I have girl friends, I get sex regularly, but there are times I just want to pull one off, what is the harm in having a toy to assist me?
2006-12-27 13:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no harm in using a toy. Sexism affects men as it does women. Women are encouraged to be more sexual and thereby be "liberated", but men on the other hand are expected to stop acting like "dogs." This is due to the Western world's conservative view of sex, which makes sex "dirty." It is okay when women masterbate because they have been sexually repressed for so long that now, new femenism allows the "empowered woman" to be sexually straight-forward. But the view of men and sex has not advanced in the same way because sex, and to some extent, men, are both still viewed as "dirty." I say have your toy, have fun, and as long as you aren't pulling it out showing it to everyone, no one has the right to judge you as anything.
2006-12-27 13:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally i dont have an issue with men and toys. I have a whole assortmet that i use myself and ones that i keep to use on and with my man. To many people are hung up on what other people are doing. Either lying about what they themselves are doing and trying to cover it up or ar jealous because they are not brave enough to try it themselves. Live and let live :)
2006-12-27 13:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no harm in anyone, male or female, in having "toys".
I dont know why there seems to be a double standard, especially when most men masterbate anyway
2006-12-27 13:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by mand 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
masturbation is not commonly talked about with the people i know.
personally, i have no problem with using toys. and i think it's awesome that we as humans can have fun with ourselves..
just because i am single and lonely, it doesn't mean that i can't experience orgasms!
enjoy your toys and have fun and don't worry about what others think or say.. heck, don't even tell people if you think they will judge you. just enjoy it yourself and keep it to yourself..
2006-12-27 14:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pull the what off? =o
2006-12-27 13:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋