how should a spouse deal with his spouse's jealousy?

Answer 1

As long as you are not doing anything that SHOULD cause jealousy- you need to talk to her and explain that she is your girl. You love her and only her and would not do anything to disrespect her.
People often have those kinds of personalities based on past experience. They don't want to feel that way- but can't help it when things get uncomfortable.
You should have that talk and then go out of your way to make sure you are keeping in contact if you are running late- or if something happens out of the ordinary that could make her wig out.
After awhile- she should be able to become more trusting and if she continues- then you need to start to be more firm about what you will or will not tolerate.

Hope that helps at all.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

Well 99 percent of women are jealous of their spouse. Its hard to deal with I know my husband has a hard time dealing with my jealousy buy you just have to think that the reason she is jealous is because she thinks you are good enough looking to reel in other women. She just wants to make sure you stay with her and don't find someone better. Most women show love with jealousy.

Answer 3

You dont deal with it. Jealousy is a sickness that the spouse needs to get counceling for. I have seen Jealousy wreck marriages. get help before it is to late

Answer 4

You should try to make that person secure about your marriage. For whatever reason the spouse is feelinig jealousy, past hurt, friends, family, etc. You are suppose to want to protect your wife if it her and the women should want to respect her husband if its him. We are hear to build up our partner and create an atosphere of love, understandining, patience, endurance. Communication is very important and body language if you pay close attention your partner speaks to you alot through non verbal communication. Please try to be more sensitive to your spouse. Put yourself in their shoes treat them the way you would want to be treated and it will work out find. Remeber no yelling its verbal abuse

Answer 5

tough question.
Try to find the root of the jealousy.
Talk is cheap, so I think that instead of trying to tell her that she's the only one for you.... show her she's the apple of your eye.
If you've not given her a reason to be jealous, maybe explain to her that her jealousy is putting a bit of a damper on the marriage (in a loving, gentle way, of course). If there is a reason for her jealousy on your part, you may just have to prove yourself.

Answer 6

Reassurance... give your spouse lots of compliments. Give her no reason to be jealous. Let her know, on a regular basis, how much she means to you, how sexy she is, how lucky you are to have her. And remember... actions speak louder than words. Hit on her, flirt with her, look at her longingly, pat her butt when you walk by, kiss her often, hug her everyday... tell her she's beautiful... write her a love note and leave it taped to her steering wheel before she goes to work... just telling her how wonderful she is and how much you love her... and how you feel like the luckiest man on earth to have her as his lady. Etc. etc. etc.

Best wishes.

Answer 7

I wish I could help but you offer no information so all I have to say is squash it! Do not let jealousy control your life it is very dangerous to you and your partner (get help).

Answer 8

well if youve earned it, then you should prove yourself, which can take a loooooong time, but if you gave them no reason to be jealous, then you should assure them of the good person that you are, and let them know the reasons why you wouldnt do it. sometimes theres nothing you can do. its a personal thing

Answer 9

There is fear underneath that jealousy, find out what it is and deal with it.

Answer 10

I'm jealous! But thats cause I have a beautiful wife and think someone might try to steal her from me!