Has anyone ever broken your heart so badly that years later you can still remember the pain? Are you over it, how did you get over it, if so? Did it change you, for the better or worse?
2006-12-27 11:38:16 · 31 answers · asked by Lachelle 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yep. It doesn't hurt the same way now that it did then but it's still painful to remember. I got over it by moving on with my life. It made me a stronger person because while I realize that people need others in their life, it doesn't have to be one specific person.
2006-12-27 11:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my heart completely destroyed about 18 months ago, it was so bad I didn't want to live. Yes I somehow managed to put the pieces back together, though only with sticky tape so it is still very fragile.
The only way I am able to strengthen it, even still today is to not let anyone close to it. Instead I make it's exercises for rebuilding strength to help other people who have or have had problems themselves.
I guess that although mine still isn't properly fixed it made me a better person to have it smashed as I can now see life from a different perspective, that mine is not the only one, and not the worst for wear. It also has ironically brought me some joy by now having the insight to help others heal theirs.
2006-12-27 11:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely. It still hurts some, since the person who broke my heart still lives in the area, and I still see their truck going down the road once every few months. I dwelled on it and moped for the longest time, but actually was helped a lot by a new friend, who was always there whenever I needed someone. Plus listening to music helped soooo much! I think I am a stronger person now and a little more wary of people. I'm not so eager to let myself get attached to someone.
2006-12-27 11:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by alt-country_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Every person I've ever loved will have a profound affect on me, if I see them. I once saw the second girl I ever fell in love with after 15 years. It felt like getting kicked in the stomach.
It seems though, that the last two are going to be the worst to get over. I broke up with my bf and gf 11 months ago. It's been serious agony every since. The reasons for leaving haven't changed, but I still love them intensely.
2006-12-27 11:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got over it and finally realized that the individual who did that to me was not worth it. At this point, it's rare that I think about him... until questions like this come up =-) and if I were to see them in public I would not have a problem walking right by them with out glancing in his direction of thinking much of him. The past we can not change and it is what makes us who we are today so don't let it stop you from enjoying your life and just be grateful for how things turned out because now you can find some one better and have a wonderful life that you would not have had with that person.
2006-12-27 11:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and I am still recovering from it. Ati first you feel as if there is no way to go on, but after about a month it is starting to feel as if it was a lifetime ago. It hurts when it happens and also hurts when you realize that it is getting easier and that it is hard to remember all the "little' things about that person that you loved so much, but that is how I have felt the last few days. I am guessing it is part of the healing process.
2006-12-27 11:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, three years ago (on Christmas Eve) my husband of 30 years left me for another woman, and I was devistated. Yes, I still remember the pain, but I have chosen to let it go. Because of that, it no longer has the power to hurt me. It wasn't easy to do...forgiving someone who hurt you that badly takes a little time and effort...but I feel so much better for letting go of the anger. If you don't let it go, you will never be able to move forward with your life, and that would be a shame.
2006-12-27 11:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And I was ruined. I did the breaking up, I knew I had to, but I've been single now for about 14 years, and will never have a serious relationship again. I've built a wall that no one can get over.
2006-12-27 11:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe Minji's answer! no longer all do, yet i'm optimistic that for the two genders there are some that do, regrettably! yet, this is existence as in some situations you win some and different situations you do no longer, yet what does not kill you makes you better and with any luck a greater and greater effectual individual. i think you ought to embody the good or undesirable as you does no longer value the two or something; and you does no longer strengthen and strengthen as a individual.
2016-10-06 02:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it hurts, but when your heart has had time to heal, all those millions of pieces, that were smashed, come back together as a whole, you and your heart, become stronger.
2006-12-27 11:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋