Hello,
I suggest that you talk to your boyfriend about this issue and be open and honest with him. Make sure that when you talk to him about this there is no one else around such as buddies. This is a private converstation that is between you & him.
If he insist that has to have it and continues to force himself upon you without consideration of you and your feelings. I suggest that you tell him "enough is enough"
If that is all this boyfriend of yours is about is a romp in the sack and nothing else, then hun you don't need him. Don't let him use your cookies up save yourself some for the real man later in life that will come your way!
The last thing you need is to become preg. by this boyfriend! Tell you what .. Do you want to really see what your boyfriend is all about? Then I suggest you play reverse Pshchology on him, now this is something I wouldnt suggest otherwise but only to prove a point to you hun.
Tell him you are preg. see what he says then.. Even though your not. You see you need to wake his butt up from all this sex because it isn't everything. I am willing to bet you that you want hear a thing else from him! Or he'll say "get rid of it!" "what do you want me too do" If any of those are the case then tell him you know I just wanted to see where you were coming from and if your using me for SEX , no I'm not preg. but there's the door and you can make your exit now! Shows over!
A man will tell you anything hun to get you to drop those panties, but you have to be smarter than that as your doing now turn his sex crazed butt down.
Don't let him use you hun... And by the way don't even fall for this birth control or condom the only thing that is for sure on not getting preg. is not having sex or your sterile and we know your not sterile.
Your young and I am sure your an attractive young lady there is a guy out there for you who will treat you like the lady you are and not always wanting your cookies! But to have a nice time with you and doing things together. This guy actually sounds like a looser hun sorry but it's true.
Girl get yourself a new man who knows how to treat you sweetheart you deserve it and you know it!!
Good luck dear!!
Have a wonderful new year too!!
2006-12-27 11:36:54
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answered by ssgtmommy01 2
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That's the risk you take when you have sex with someone you're not married to.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married. You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side. It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship. It takes two very mature people. You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex. Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I have a boyfriend of more than 10 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2006-12-27 11:25:42
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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u knw sumtyms men dnt realise what their doing? n think youre all gud coz ur smiling? well tell him ur feelings - men are crap wiv this stuff u gta make him talk to u.
ur probaly feelng used , coz ur feeling unwanted - does he not be sweet to u otherwise?
this is why i say to people DNT RUSH INTO SEX. lol.
if he sez he wants 2 b wiv u for a lonmg tym, tell him u wanna feel that he is sure of what he sez n not jus sayin it to keep you happy. you two need to stop da sex, n start cuddling more which will make u closer n give u both tym to talk n hav a laff etc. dnt have sex for atleast 3-4 days- then it feels special also.
talk to him in a calmed way , n he will consider ur feelings. after all -ur only sayin all this coz u care bou ur relationship wiv him... dnt u?
gudluck.
2006-12-27 11:47:09
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answered by Madam M 2
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Playing with sex is playing with fire. You are sure to get burned. Sounds like you already have been burned. Sex is for marriage and family. Don't expect anything but emptiness when you use sex selfishly, as you are doing.
2006-12-27 13:38:45
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answered by delmaanna67 5
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Some guyz are just sexually motivated, just wanting to share those moments with the person they love. I used to be that way when i was a bit younger, and my gf thought the same. I took time for her to actually realize that i did in fact lover her. Give it time.
2006-12-27 11:21:15
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answered by Anonymous
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it could be worse u know. he could be having sex with u and does not want to be in a committed relationship with u, using the excuse "but we are just hanging out right??" be glad he is not doing that and ur actually in a relationship. if u feel like he is using u tell him that and he should respect u when ur not in the mood. but girl thats all men, heheheh. they only think with whats in their pants.
2006-12-27 11:23:24
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answered by superstar 3
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Well, it is possible. If you make him wait, you will find out if he really cares about you or not. Sex should not be something you bargain with. If you find out that is all he wants you for, learn something from this and don't be so eager to give it up next time.
2006-12-27 11:22:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Well he could just love you and he wants to give it to you any chance he gets because he doesn't want you to leave him! I don't think that he is using you but if you don't feel confertable having sex that often then dont!
2006-12-27 11:20:27
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answered by brownsugacookie 3
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Does it feel like he's using you? It sounds like it but it's a bit hard to say without more information.
2006-12-27 11:21:02
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answered by DelK 7
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If he truly cared about you, he would not pressure you to have sex if you didn't want to. He would respect your feelings.
2006-12-27 13:15:19
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answered by dmc81076 4
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