Isthere like a signal or some way to tell who does what?I mean I know all guy that mess with other guys are not flamers and all so, how do you tell?
thankx
2006-12-27 10:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
umm...its difficult one to say for sure..
coz there are different types of guys, you cant just generalize.
There will be some who ll flaunt their sexuality and you ll know tht he likes you within hardly any time.
There are some who are closeted & they ll pretend tht they like only gals & even pretend to despise other homosexuals...lol.
Then there are some who go in between, i.e. they dont flaunt their sexuality, neither are they closeted; but they might be shy/reserved in nature & therz a possibility that you wont find out unless you ask..
So, actually the answer to this question varies according to the man who is trying to hit on someone..
hope this helps..
the best way therefore to ask him out.
2006-12-27 10:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Girish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people (gays) have there own way of doing things, Like when they like guys, sometimes they will observe them for a while, sometimes they walk right up and ask them, sometime they expect the guy to come up to them and ask. There are so many ways that guys think others are HOT. Sometimes its a look, sometimes it the way he moves or walks , or smiles, whatever it is. So there is really no one way to tell.
2006-12-27 18:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that you can tell if somebody's gay because of certain personality traits, but that's just discriminating. Homosexuality is a choice, and you can't tell what a choice somebody made is by just looking at them or anything.
The only way to really know is to ask them.
2006-12-27 18:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by netbug009 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask for one but if they do stuff like open their legs in front of u or hang out with u a lot like a girl or ask about body parts
2006-12-27 19:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by nick wonders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he's got your P'nis in his mouth, chances are the answer will be yes. That's always a sure sign to me.
2006-12-27 18:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys that like other guys go to places where they can meet men (like gay bars/clubs). It's usually easy to tell if someone is gay or not when you are in a gay bar ;)
2006-12-27 18:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lorenz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to have sex with you thats what you really want to know any way
you could wink at him that would be a signal
2006-12-27 18:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Josephus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of GAYDAR?? Thats the way you could tell.
2006-12-27 18:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sometimes tell by how he gazes at another guy
2006-12-27 22:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can understand by his kinda activities which he does or go stright n ask him
2006-12-27 19:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋