Well it isnt bad or anything but this guy at my church has been slaping me in front of his mom so that i cant say anything. I know he is just playing with me but i am soo fed up with it. What HSould I do??
2006-12-27 10:14:26 · 28 answers · asked by Kayley M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Before you resort to violence (heehee), tell him if you put your hands on me again, playing or not I am going to knock you out. If that doesn't work, you have permission to sock him in the eye... and throw an AMEN out there afterwards!
2006-12-27 10:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Chick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should not be slapping you anywhere. That is assault. It is against the law.
His mother should NOT stand by watching him slap you and not correct his behavior.
I don't know what the whole story is here; but something is very wrong.
You need to stay away from this boy. In church. In school. Everywhere.
Slapping is not an acceptable form of communication.
2006-12-27 18:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by krinkn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm having a little difficulty understanding why him hitting you in front of his mother is keeping you from saying anything- if anything, his mother should be correcting his behavior! It is unacceptable for anyone to hit anyone else- unless you are in a boxing ring.
It sounds to me like you are minimizing his actions (I know he is just playing with me) And I'm not sure why-This is not playful behavior if you are not comfortable with it. I know it is scary to tell someone to stop doing something, but this behavior should not have started in the first place.
If you cannot tell this guy to quit on your own, I would suggest finding someone who will support you, (a youth leader, a fellow student or pastor) and confront him together.
**why is someone getting away with physical abuse in a church!!!**
good luck-- and do something about this quick!!
2006-12-27 18:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by slcfirekitten 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait, he's doing this in front of your mom and she's not doing anything about it? In CHURCH?
Next time he reaches out for you, bring your arm up to knock his hand away. Then, give him a good old-fashioned death glare. He'll know then that you mean business. (This is why I started learning karate — there's no sense in putting up with abuse, especially from a male.)
2006-12-27 18:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stand up for yourself, it doesn't matter if he is "just playing" and doing it in front of his mom it doesn't make it ok, there could be a time when he is not in front of his mom and could actually physically harm you by taking it to the next level, stay as far away from this guy as possible because he is already showing signs that he could be abusive...
2006-12-27 18:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats NOT right, if his Mom, wont say anything to him, then its up to you to tell him to knock it off, or, better yet report him to the pastor or slap him back in front of his mother & tell him to STOP hitting you.
2006-12-27 18:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he does that you hold his and back and tell him ur gonna sue him cuz wat he is doin is against the law
hez doin the worse part by slapin u at church nd u need 2 talk 2 ur mom uz she should not let the guy slap u.
if u r so fed up with it and u are not doin nuttin, it means u r afraid, and u cant sho hi ur afraid cuz then hez gonna keep doin it. Thatz wat he wants u to do, but remember UR IN CONTROL!!
good luck
2006-12-27 18:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by redefined x27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In front of him Mom?!!
1.) Avoid him (and her) - Completely. Never get within arms reach and in fact always move in the opposite direction.
2.) Confront him. Say "Don't do that!" Even if he's trying to disguise it as playful... it isn't. Say - "That's not playing! That hurts, I don't like it, and you have to never do that again."
2006-12-27 18:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by marcus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is playing tell him to knock it off or face the consequences(like you will file a report of domestic abuse)no person deserves to be abused in jest or not there is no excuse for it and stand up for your rights to be treated with respect and as a person, not a punching bag
2006-12-29 12:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would holler really loud when he does it right in front of his mom "Ouch! stop slapping me! that really hurts!" He'll be so embarressed and his mom will get on to him and you won't have to worry about it anymore. Good luck and God bless!
2006-12-27 18:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋