I changed school . My new school is horrible . Im getting bullied . I wanna go back to my old school . HELP?!?

Question

HOW DO I CONVINCE MY MOM ?

Answer 1

Tell her everything that is going on.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Everyone has a hard time adjusting in a new school (tell me about it!). Perhaps the only dead end you're facing is the bullies, and not the school as a whole. Since you don't mention any other problems, I'll focus on bullies. It is important that you inform someone in the school about this, a teacher, a councellor etc. That way you'll make sure they are punished and taught a valuable lesson. As far as you're mother is concerned, it depends on what's her view of the matter. Of course you must talk to her, and don't forget to mention how bullying affects your mood, your behavior, and your grades. Also, having another adult (e.g. a teacher) talk to her about that matter will be very helpful. I have been bullied continuously and sometimes still am, I know what you're going through. What you really need to do is realise that those people are not worth the least of your attention. We're talking about children with real problems, psychological or family, who, instead of dealing with the real problem, try to "inflict" it on others. Talk to someone who can handle your situation properly and don't worry. I honestly hope this works out in the best way possible!

Answer 3

OK, I am a teacher.

Are you really being bullied or are people just being horrid to you.?

Bullying is something that one person (or group) keeps doing. If it is different people all the time then it will settle down. If not it IS bullying.

Where/when is the bullying taking place?

The big problem is that if things happen outside school people say it is nothing to do with school and teachers don't like to get involved. . . . . . . .

BUT THAT ISN'T RIGHT!

If it happens outside school the chances are that you will feel menaced in school and be unable to listen to lessons. The best advice is NOT to try to be clever back to them just avoid them and if you have to talk to them limit yourself to something very simple like 'just go away' anything else will get them excited and they will know they are winning.

Why not show your Mum everything that we have all written? Keep a diary and show her that or show it to your teacher. Make sure you only tell the truth. If even one thing you say is wrong people won't listen.

The big thing is YOU CAN WIN.
1. Get some mates
2. Get some nice kids to go home with you.
3. Tell your Mum (show her Yahoo Answers)
4. Tell your teacher.

Answer 4

I don't know how old you are and what your mum is like?

It's better think of what your really want and make your own decision based on your future and then discuss it with your mum then she would see that it's the best for you which is what you both want.

If you changed your old school for a negative reason do you really want to go back to the old one again? Still it would be a better choice than the new one.

Perhaps you can ask your mum to choose a school for you based on their academic performance (if it's possible) or even go to a boarding school.There is a possibility of home study too until you do your A`levels or go to university.

When you find the right school for you will be glad you changed school.

Answer 5

I changed schools too, but there was no possible way I could get into any other schools, nor into my old school. I became seriously depressed, perhaps worse than I already am, and bunked almost every day. In two months I attended 6 days of school. My life was spiralling out of control, and eventually I dropped out! My advice to you is to sit her down and speak to her. Ask her if there is any possible way that the next grade you can do in your old school as this school is absolutely no good for you. You are being bullied, aren't coping and are nostalgic for your old school. Added to that you are lonely, miserable and are developing a severe, serious bout of depression!

Answer 6

Why did you change schools in the first place though? If you're being bullied, tell someone - a teacher or someone in authority to make sure this stops right away. Give it some time and you'll meet new friends and hopefully settle in. Good luck - but tell someone about the bullying.

Answer 7

Timing is critical. Find a time when she is not distracted and is open ears. Ask her if she will sit down on the couch (TV OFF) with you to talk about something serious. Be specific and detailed with her about how bad it is, and tell her you are being bullied and all that has been going on. Insist that it is bad, and that something should be done. She will listen.

Answer 8

Tell your mum you are being bullied andtogether you can work out a solution.It may not be possible for you to go back to your old school? Do you have a counsellor at your new school?

Answer 9

oh sweetheart you have to tell her how you feel.
no kid should be bullied and feel upset at the thought of going to school.
don't bottle it all up and don't worry about having to convince your mum, once she knows the problem i am sure she will try to help.
take care and remember you are better than them .
good luck xxxx

Answer 10

stand up for yourself,show the bullies your not afraid of them!

if they see fear in your eyes they will never leave u alone!

+ when u get older you'll notice bullies everywhere,even as an adult.they might not hurt u but they do other things.

Answer 11

maybe if you video tape everything then shell move ,take her to school with you and tell her to dress up as a kid or just tell your mom straight face and everything should be alright.(a mother should believe her child (like your mom should believe you) and if she don't believe you then she has bad parenting skills) (she might need to work on them)