Not only the fact that people would look on you in a certain light but all the STD's . Even if you do use contraception is it really wise to have mutiple partners ? I know even if we have one partner we are never really sure they too have one but thats not the Q . What do you think?
2006-12-27 09:59:09 · 18 answers · asked by C 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Dont get me wrong Im not saying I want to be a bike for all to take a ride on . I just simply thought it was a good Q . Ive been married since I was 16 (13 years later just seperated ) so just a passing thought that was all , I dissaprove of putting it about personally but its a choice we all have .
2006-12-27 10:16:38 · update #1
What about making it good to somebody and he starts
stalking you, or she slashes your tires, and calls your
girlfreinds, when you think you are through with them.
Wise up!
Anthony Silva
2006-12-27 11:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by THE NEXT LEVEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From an STD point of view, I'd say it's not safe to deliberately be promiscuous. It's not wise and it's not fair on future partners if you've caught something.
From a personal point of view, I'd say it shows a lack of respect to yourself if you're constantly sleeping around and that's a shame. Wait for someone you love instead. It's safer because you'll probably have had less, and it should make the sex more special.
Other people's attitudes are a shame though. I think we shouldn't condemn others for their sexual habits. Although I don't agree with sleeping around I wouldn't judge others who do. Some find it fulfilling a need that's more than sexual - like an emotional need to feel loved and wanted. And if it makes them feel good, then who are we to argue? I have Christian reasons why I don't agree with being promiscuous, ie one's body is God's temple and sex before marriage is wrong etc. But that is my personal view and I'd ask people to respect that.
I wouldn't advise being promiscuous, as it does you no good and puts you at risk from STDs and I don't think that in the long term being promiscuous solves any psychological issues that the person may have.
Hold out for someone the people you love and savour it.
2006-12-27 10:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqui 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Promiscuity is not a problem, it is a perception of the human mind of it being wrong, but why? We watch nature programmes and think nothing wrong in animals that mate with many other of their species. Why should humans be so different are we not animals too?
Sex is a gift for enjoyment as well as procreation.
We can be faithfull to one partner and as a rule are. How ever if a person wants multiple partners that is fine too. Yes std's are a problem and should be taken seriously but regular health checks and precautions taken limits the risk. My view is that we take our attitude to sex far too seriously. Life is for enjoyment. I am unattached any takers!!?
2006-12-27 10:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
your completely correct
ans as one person said it is a death sentence in to days world, why do you think they now take DNA samples from inside the mouth even for AIDS..because you can transfer even AIDS from kissing to another person...it is getting so bad that even if the person said they just have only been with one, they can lie, and every one the other person was with plus the amount of this one guy could add up to 100 people all sharing their diseases, and becoming carriers passing it to everyone.so I say no do nothing until your married, and even then have him take tests ..a few tests...before your married
and like that very old saying, it is going to get worse before it gets better,
good luck
smile
2006-12-27 10:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, what has befell is that human beings are lowering their criteria and moral values have disenegrated into apathethic excuses, lack of self administration and lies. it continues to be incorrect to have sex beforehand marriage and the most important false impression of our time, is that that's ok. i do not see any postives there. Does all of us understand the stunning cost of being with your husband the first time, sharing intimacy with him the first time and under no circumstances having options of a existence spent beforehand assembly him? Virginity isn't valued anymore...and that is pathetic.
2016-12-01 05:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by jaffar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you should not be promiscuous.they tell kids today about safe sex.but there is no safe sex today no matter what they do there is always a risk.of some disease.but they just don't care any more.they go out get p*ss and have sex with a complete stranger.you see it in any town in the UK at weekends.but if that's the way they get there fun good luck because they need it.
2006-12-27 10:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by peter o 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have been promiscuous all through the centuries it only seems more these days because of exposure to instant news about all kinds of things through the media. There is nothing new under the sun.
Todays society is like yesterdays and tomorrows. etc etc
Thanks for the two points
Kind regards
2006-12-27 10:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Police Artist 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, no it's not OK. Not to mention the reasons you gave such as STDs, why would you want to degrade yourself like that.
2006-12-27 10:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well since I am religious, I think it is NOT okay to be promiscuous. It wasn't okay in yesterday's society either.
2006-12-27 10:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think people are to free and easy these days to many diseases out there to worry about don't think many people take note of what can happen to them even with contraception
2006-12-27 10:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by helen34 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋