normal, kind of retarded, he chases anythink in the skirt, not willing to work but prefer to beg around, the second one left to Ghana and never want to get involve with anyone in the family. the 3rd born is a single mother who those not want to settle with one man, she still love life even at the age of forty something, the 4th born has a little income that could bearly go round for his own immediate family, l was sexsually abused by the 5th born when l was 4years old. He is very rascal. The trauma is still in my head. The 6th born is very stingy never willing to assist financially, the 7th one goes about duping people and presently, has disappeared into thin air cos his debtor are after him. the 8th born is just trying to make ends meat. l feel very sick whenever l know that l,m from a family were there is no love, not organise. l feel like running and never look back. l,m not proud of my family at all.
2006-12-27 09:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
im very sorry. that sucks a lot. i had a friend almost exactly like that. (kinda scary) only her half brother physically abused her and her dad sexually abused her. then her mom left for good. this girl moves around a lot but shes lived near me for quite some time now. i got to know her and i became her support with everything.
what im trying to say is, find a friend who will help you through everything. someone who'll say that they love you and that your special. i know it sounds cheesey, but everyone needs that in their life. i was fortunate enuff to have grown up in a supporting family where everyone gets along(for the most part). i have however had many friends with the same type situation as you. i hope you grow up to be different from the ppl who bother you. i've lost some friends who stared doing drugs and drinking and sex and stuff like that. and what i thought was ironic is thats what they were running away from.
if you already have a friend like that, please take them seriously. and please appreciate them. i dont know exactly what your going through, but i know from an outsiders point of view.
i hope ive helped at least a little. im not trying to scare you. i just want you to know that im praying for you and that someone out there loves you
God bless
2006-12-27 10:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and divorce your family. You have a right to your own life away from the embarrassing mess they've created. Create your own family from your chosen friends.
2006-12-27 09:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just needed to vent, huh? Thats o.k. It does sound like you have it rough, I'm sorry.
2006-12-27 09:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by hughcrawford1980 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabe instead of whinning about you family you try o help them become they perfect family you want.
2006-12-27 10:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by uber_monkey_04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats bad
2006-12-27 10:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am confused
what is the question?
2006-12-27 09:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by ride4thepride 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW
2006-12-27 09:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by ?PARIS HILTON? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋