I would like an honest answer to this problem....?

Question

I would like an honest answer to this problem..
reciently I had to help a friend of mine who started having fainting
spells again.this time when she fainted i caught her in my arms,and her boyfriend showed up at her home at the same time she collapsed in my arms.now he is royally angery because i had my arms around her.he says she is cheating on him,i told him he is wrong she is not the type to do that!i said to him the reason i had my arms around her was because i kept her from hitting the kitchen table face first.when she came to i told her what happened and she told him to act his age and stop over reacting
she told him to be thankful that i was there to help.was he right to over react the way he did?So what can i do? i feel as if this is my fault!what can i do?

Answer 1

dont worry so much, if he doesnt believe you now he might not believe you ever. all you can do is claim innocence and if he doesnt believe you he should believe his girl, and if not then hes not trustin anyways. i mean its a bad situation, and i think you could understand his overreaction, but he should get off it after a good talk over. all you can do is leave it alone, dont get too defensive, just kinda forget about it

Answer 2

My question: Why were you at the girl's house alone with her? It looks odd! The bf may know that she is subject to fainting spells, but not be willing to accept that you were there to catch her. Sad.

You cannot be responsible for the reactions of another person. If your conscience is clear and so is hers, then it is up to the two of them to make each other 'see the light.' and sort it out. Your part is over.

Nothing you can do but be sure not to find yourself at another man's girl's house in the future! Alone especially!

Answer 3

Pray about it... ask God to sort out this whole situation.. and He will.. if you deep down inside believe it yourself...
Everything happens for a reason... and sometimes we don't know why they happen and think that if we could re due it, that it would be perfect the way that we see it... but thats not always true....
I know its hard, but in a relationship you guys need to be able to trust one another... You trust him, he trust you... that is key... If you dont trust one another.. then.... dont you think that your relationship will crush? Ask God for his wisdom.. He will help you through it all... Why try and do it all on your own when you can have someone take your hand.. and pick you up....
Blessings!

Answer 4

First thing it's definitely not your fault. Her bf seems to be very insure person so its all on him. There's nothing you can do except still be there as a friend to her cuz apparently she needs someone to lean on. But as far as what happened there's nothing you can say or do to help the situation between the two thats on them.

Answer 5

Are you serious? The honest answer is that is you have to ask this question you are an idiot. Obviously this guy has a few screws loose remove him from your life and when you see this kind of behavior in other people you meet, dont become friends with them.

Answer 6

sounds like this lady has absolute and entire administration over you. opportunities are high she in all possibility acts the way she does to maintain you on your feet consistently. in case you pick for a commited courting with a mature lady then you definately ought to commence valuing your self greater and tell this lady if she retains taking part in you alongside then you definately're going to assert bye bye. You deserve greater effectual than this??? And play it extremely cool, dnt text cloth her, enable her text cloth you, substitute the jobs and you be the only in fee for a transformation. you ought to work out this women behaviour substitute in an instantaneous.

Answer 7

what a jerk ,instead of being thankful you where right there to prevent worst case ,not your fault ,and quit defending yourselves ,the more you do the more you going to look guilty ,hes the one with a problem ,he may be doing something wrong ,did you ever heard ,it takes one to know one .
you did the right thing and helped your friend .
Insecurity is an ugly sin.

Answer 8

I don't think it is your fault at all. He was wrong to overreact because he should trust his girlfriend enough to believe your story. Try sitting them down together and talking about the situation then if he still thinks differently leave it up to them to deal with it.

Answer 9

he does have the right to be angry,imagine yourself walking on a guy holding your girlfriend in his arms!but when he heard what happened he shouldn't be mad any more.Try to let him feel guilty like saying"Did you want her to fall on the floor and hurt herself severely?why do you want such a thing for a person who had been nothing but
loyal to you??"say stuff like that and when your done say"I apologize for any misunderstanding that i have caused here"and then just turn around and leave.
This may seem a little crazy but that's my HONEST answer.And your friend should see a doctor for safety on her life.Good Luck

Answer 10

Sounds like they already had trust issues in their relationship before her "fainting" spell. Perhaps you should keep in mind that not availing yourself to be part of the problem might be the only solution.