Culturally I am from Pakistan.
2006-12-27 09:33:38 · 25 answers · asked by azad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-27 09:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you are in a hurry. Jumping from one situation into another before you are out of the first.
First of all, try to work it out with your wife, especially if you have children. If you are determined that it won't work out then, Please get completely out of one relationship before you even think about getting into another~~~~ Then you can meet someone available through a friend, out walking the dog, at work, at a gym, and etc..
Above all, be yourself, relax and smile a lot, it is contagious, and learn to love animals, for that is one good way to connect. Sure is a pretty dog ! What breed of dog is that ? Of course you are walking in the park or sitting on a bench in the park.
Take your time and don't get to anxious. You will meet someone meant just for you when the time is right and you least expect it. As my Mother used to say "Mark my word".
You reached out for help on this site and I think you are going to do just fine.
I do hope you can find once more with your wife what you and she had in the beginning.
Bless you and have a wonderful New Year !!!
2006-12-27 10:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Culturally where you are from makes no difference, you should not being looking for another while you are still married to the first one. And FYI - My guess is, your wife is probably not happy with you, either.
2006-12-27 09:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if your wife is Pakistani, I am assuming it was an arranged marriage? If she is non Pakistani, then what makes you think a second time will be a charm.
I am a Pakistani married to a Caucasian for 11 years, have 2 wonderful kids, Marriage is what you make of it bro, its a lot of hard work. Hang in there and try and work it out.
2006-12-27 09:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are Pakistani like I am, Then you might want to divorce first then look for wife, you should go online or look somewhere else, if you are from Pakistan
2006-12-27 09:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hina579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first get divorced. Tell your wife your feelings and if you cant work it out then divorce. And next time think about this problem b4 you make the same mistake.
ps
my uncle always says "Happy wife happy life."
2006-12-27 09:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you not happy with your wife? For whatever reason it may be dont stay married if your unhappy get a divorce and move on.
2006-12-27 09:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here in the U. S. one needs to be divorced before they can have a second wife. It's against the law to have two wives and lie in U.S.
2006-12-27 09:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should first consider why you got married?
What were the vows and promises you made to each other?
Have you been faithful to those vows?
If you still want out, then the fair thing is to face this situation first, then once resolved, look for your new mate.
2006-12-27 09:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by SolarFanatic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, Your married dontcha know that you just can't throw away a relationship away like that, Marriage is about who's right or who's wrong, and when the going gets ruff you deal, and you never walk away from it.Try to hold on and be strong.
2006-12-27 09:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced from the first one before you start searching for a new one. Better yourself by taking full responsibility and making amends for the issues in your present failing marriage that are your fault.
2006-12-27 09:37:11 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋