2006-12-27 09:15:41 · 16 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I stop talking to them and find other friends who truely care.
2006-12-27 09:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend. We used to call each other "Best" friends, in fact. She was going through a rough spot in her marriage a couple of years ago. She needed me at least 3 nights a week and I was there for her. This went on for about a year! She worked things out with her husband, they had another baby, and I've only seen her about 3x in the past year now. It sucks. It isn't even worth addressing. If I say something to her like, "Let's do something on a weekend." She looks at her calendar and states how she's booked up for at least 2 months. I mostly gave up. We still see each other once in awhile and she calls me back occasionally. It is frustrating. I really just think of it as we're not such good friends anymore. It's sad.
2006-12-27 09:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by ReeberKaseyMarcus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find myself in that situation quite often with the same person I claim is my best friend. When she is in a relationship, she cuts out the rest of the world, but the minute things get rough for her, I am the first person she turns to-and then she makes up with the person and who knows when I will talk to her next...This used to upset me, now it doesn't, when someone is lonely comfort them, especially if your calling them your friend. Maybe they do drop you, and it stinks!! but you shouldn't sink to their level, let karma catch up with them.
2006-12-27 09:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 20:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by wilde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a hot cake when they call you, after they stop calling be a cool cucumber.
2006-12-27 09:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind them that friendship is a two-way street, and that if they cannot be there for you not to bother. You have to learn how to set healthy bounderies. I recommend the book "Boundaries" by Zondervan Press. It covers this situation.
2006-12-27 09:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time they want something, tell them you are busy. The truth is they are not friends. They are using you. Don't lose any sleep over people like this, they are not worth it.
2006-12-27 09:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends and enjoy life!
2006-12-27 09:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by ChioPio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the life....
That's y a good friend is so hard to find....
hugs from Shayla
2006-12-27 12:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to kick them or behave likely to them so they can also understand..how feel when someone ignore u in such condition.
2006-12-27 09:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋