So we have been friends for a while just over a mounth we have gotten closer and closer i try to flirt to let him know im intrested. Ive touched him made eye contact. Sometimes he looks back or nods or something he has a girl friend but he says that he just uses her for anal sex and he dosent even like her.we always look at eachother when someone creates a sexual pun . I dont know if he can tell if im gay or not he always pulls his shirt up infront of me or pulls his pants below his hip line we seem to really connect and from the slurs about his girlfriend i think he is letting me know hes not feeling her. So he has invited me to hangout i dont drive but he does he wants to come pic me up tomorow do you think he may actually be intrested or just thinks im his "friend". we are gonna be alone how should i test to see if hes openminded he is a pervert i just dont know how open minded he is how can i test to see if hes intrested without putting myself out thanks.
2006-12-27 09:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
O and do you think he could be bi he is all man but he loves anal says hes not attracted to his girlfriend and hes a wrestler.
2006-12-27 09:15:09 · update #1
if all i can have with him is the physical thats fine i dont need arelationship
2006-12-27 09:24:02 · update #2
look people dont get off topic with the advice i want to know how i can test him 2 see if he is bi and i want to know if he may like me i didnt ask to to tell me to leave him alone or blah blah blah.
2006-12-27 09:28:30 · update #3
I think that maybe you should just ask him if he has ever had sex with a guy, and if he hasn't' would you want to, only because you just want to try. just to make it look like your not gay or bi. unless he knows it. I would offer him my anus if he likes to do anal sex. Maybe it could be the beginning of something that you both want, but I really wouldn't expect you to become b/f just friends that wants (gay) sex together once in a while
2006-12-27 10:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just flat-out ask him if he thinks you're attractive and whether he is interested in you sexually. The worst that can happen is he'll say no. He does sound like a bit of a turd, using his girlfriend for sex. But perhaps he is confused and doesn't know what he wants. I hardly think that you're going to change him though; that once he has sex with you, he'll never have sex with anyone else besides you. It may be quite the opposite, that he'll be doing everyone he can, male and female. Who knows?
The thing about his pulling out his shirt or pulling down his pants is not indicative of anything. I mean, unless he's showing you his pecker, don't be reading anything into it. Guys do that. It is a guy thing, gay or str8. You probably do it too sometimes and just never think about it.
And so what if you never have sex with him. A lot more can be said of friendship than for quickies. A true friend is something to keep and cultivate, not try and take to a different level. Sex has a way of messing things up with your mates.
2006-12-27 09:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, liking someone is a great feeling. I know it very well. But why would you want to get with a guy who is clearly driven by lust? Only with his girlfriend for 'anal sex'? Not that I've got anything against anal sex but what makes you so sure that if you two do hit it off, that he'll actually be with you for you and not for whats in your pants? Unless you're also driven by lust, forget about this guy. But maybe you've misunderstood what he said about his girlfriend. Maybe he actually does like her and might just be saying that hes using her for some weird reason. Ok i'm getting carried away now lol so i'll stop. Whatever you decide to do, make sure you make full use of your common sense.
2006-12-27 09:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Me Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the way he talks about his girlfriend is disrespectful and unkind. Why would you want to open yourself to this person?
I think you guys should be straight, stop sinning and get a normal life. I am sorry this seams harsh. God created us to love, to be kind, to honor others. He did not create us for perverted sexual practices. To just want sex from someone is not normal. You need normal human relationships. Emphasis on "normal". You might benefit from some counseling to find out why you only want perverted sex without the relationship.
2006-12-27 09:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by mar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would be thinking that if he has a girlfriend and he is telling you that he is using her and does not care about her, do you really want to be involved with him as he may just want to use you also and then there you are with your heart broken. think twice about this one.
2006-12-27 09:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hump, hump. hump
2006-12-27 09:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by saehli 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋