Okay my friends says she is not gay. But she is dating a girl, kissing a girl. They have not done it yet. But why can't she be honest with me and tell she's bi? My best friend is a lesbian and I'm not mean to her. I'm not the type of girl to withdraw from someone just because they are homosexual or bisexual. My parents raised me better than that.
2006-12-27 09:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she's not lesbian, she's well on her way.
I question your parents raising of you, if you accept this perverted lifestyle as normal. This is sick! And your should have been raised to recognize sickness, when you see it!
2006-12-27 14:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you remain an accepting person, and don't judge her for any of her actions, she will be more inclined to open up to you once she is ready. If this is hard for you, imagine how hard it is for her right now. She's trying to discover who she is exactly, and the best thing in the world for you to do is to support her, accept her, and let her talk to you about it when she is ready.
2006-12-27 09:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always use to question myself about my sexuality because everybody kept asking...are you gay...are you gay...are you gay?
I said no...I'm bisexual and I'll always be! This isn't something that goes away...and there is nothing wrong with it. Why does it matter what you're friend is? Who care is they have done it yet or not?
2006-12-27 09:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly her friend, why don't you just present your case and ask her. Stop worrying about labeling her a lesbian and start being a better friend.
2006-12-27 09:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be sure herself yet give her time to figure out what she thinks she is first she will come to you when she is ready
2006-12-27 09:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready to say she is because she probably isn't sure herself. Let her figure it out and when she's ready she will tell you.
2006-12-27 09:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by RoseBud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not sure, and just experimenting. Don't pressure her. When she has found out she probably will let you know.
2006-12-27 09:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'kll tell u when shez ready if u want it 2 b ooner tell her u already know ok w/e peace biaatchez!!!
2006-12-27 09:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanna Havok! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. If youre this great friend why do you care?
2006-12-27 09:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by penny 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She probably just bicoriuse give her time and shell let you know.,
2006-12-27 10:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋