Anyways, there is this guy I like a lot but for some reason he thinks I hate him. Once i accidentally elbowed him bad. The other time i thought he was doing a math problem wrong but he did it right. In addition, made one of those statements like "you could do better" which you could take in a positive or negative way. Everytime i try to be nice i do something like elbow him. It's getting annoying. Anyways, my sister thinks he likes me. But i like him but i don't want him to like me back. I'm so afraid of having someone like me. I want them to like me but then again i don't. I don't know how to be a girlfriend and I'm also afraid of growing up. Help me. any advice, tips, comments, questions.
2006-12-27 09:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound desperate and very insecure. REALLY, get counseling. What you are feeling is in no way normal. You can't love someone before loving yourself. Often times employers have avenues to free counseling. If not, contact your health insurer to find a mental health professional. However unnormal it is, it is more common than you'd think. You are not alone. You just need the right advice from someone who can help you on an ongoing basis, not just a one time reply on yahoo.
2006-12-27 09:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like your just scared of relationships. There is no certain way to be a girlfriend. If you like him then u want him to like u back but ur just scared that things won't work maybe? But all in all life is to short not to just go for it. Tell him how u feel face to face. Apparently other ways hasn't help u any so just tell him bluntly. I know it will be hard but if u really like him make yourself. It might end up pretty kool at the end. Just relax and be yourself thats all u can do.
2006-12-27 09:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by loverofunicorns2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i had thes ame issue in highschool. i still do a little now. you are just insecure, and you like guys but you dont want them to know you like them because youre afriad they might not like you back, because if they dont they might reject you and that will feel really horrible. So you resort to extreme ways of seemign like you dont like them, you go the opposite way and make it seem like you actually hate them, anyting to hide the fact that you do like them. I did this to one guy, i liked him, so whenver he would try to flirt i would treat him like sh*t, i think i was also afraid that my friends might see that iliked him too.
I think what you need to do is learn more about yourself, if you learn to love yourself, only then will someone be able to love you too. Luckily, you'll learn to do this as you get older. Dont lose hope sweetie!
2006-12-27 09:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well either you respond to him or not giggling at him when he dose this will make him think you like him too , if you feel its to much rite now you should distance yourself from him a bit.
2006-12-27 09:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident for optimistic! he deffinatly likes you or he wouldnt have referred to as u exceptionally and asked you out! what are you doing thats soo important? see in case you could cancell and pass out with him instead. if u dont then he could experience such as you dont like him as lots on condition that u reported that u wernt doing something then desperate to no longer pass out with him with him the two. or you ought to in basic terms say that u had plans yet didnt choose for to assert given which you like him lots, that way hell be attentive to which you like him too.
2016-10-06 02:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by esannason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋