If you dated someone for a long time and had a good relationship but broke up over crazy situations would it be ok to try to contact them and see if they are single again after several years? Seen them out but I had a boyfriend at the time know they are single. Could it work? Really miss him.
2006-12-27 09:02:11 · 20 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go ahead and call him, see if he is single take it slow and see how things develop. You never know what might happen
2006-12-27 09:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It could be done, but whatever silly things you guys were doing at the time to break up are hopefully resolved, be it personality issues or external problems.
You have to be totally honest about things, and be prepared for some hesitation on either persons part. If both are comfortable starting again, it could work.
Make sure your issues are resolved. Don't have any loose strings or skeletons in your closet, and if you do, be up front about it.
If you just want to get together for "old times" sake, then it's probably not gonna last long.
2006-12-27 17:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by frenzee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a shot.I have been out with the same guy 6 or 7 times and we talk atleast 4 or 5 days a week.I slike someone else but still have feelings for him.He broke up with me 2 times and I broke up with him 5 or 5 times and I would stilltake him back any day.At least right now I would.
2006-12-27 17:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lilleigh Maye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and find out. However, you must first think, what was the reason the two of you broke up? If it had anything to do with the loss of trust, cheating for example. Then I would not even consider it. However, if it was just young love and silliness. Well then contact him, you never know. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-27 17:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, like a second in time, like doing the wave in a stadium, up and down for only a moment. What is the worst that could happen? Rejection? You've been there I've bet. And then survived. Go for it.
2006-12-27 17:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are an EX for a reason because they werent right ,so why waste your time going backwards and getting into something that didnt work the first time .
2006-12-27 17:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by youngprincez23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who dumped who? If you dumped me because of "crazy situations" (how does that translate from womanese into English?), I'd rather you left me alone if you are silly enough to think you can undo that dammage.
2006-12-27 17:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you should look at the negatives and then look at the positives. See which one ways out more. Then choose
2006-12-27 19:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it could... there is always another (not just a 2nd) chance to have a relationship.... it's only if the other person is willing to put in the same ammount of effort that you are....
i say go for it... the worst he can do is say no right?!?!?
good luck! :)
2006-12-27 17:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound a little desperate. Go on to new things. Exes are meant to be exes.
2006-12-27 17:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋