my boyfreind is rushing our relationshipe and I'm 16 and two days ago he asked me to marry him give me a little advice.
2006-12-27 08:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by Braiden E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to screw off and never come back. He is psycho and showing stalker tendencies. Tell him!
2006-12-27 09:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him you're putting him on timeout. Tell him you're putting the brakes on the relationship, and to not call you for a week. Tell him you're going to stop seeing him for a while.
Whatever you tell him, be firm. No one knows anything about love at 16, I don't care what they say. If you don't realize for yourself that you are still changing, you may end up making the wrong decision and marrying someone who you don't love, and regret it.
He will probably be unhappy or even pushy about this, but you need your room, just like anyone else, don't let him manipulate you. There's no such thing as a one-sided relationship, and if you don't have input into where your relationship is going, then you need to jump out.
If he's trying to rush the relationship, you need to ask yourself why? If he is really ready to get married, are you in love with him? Does he have a job or car? Do you guys have a way to support each other? Does he want sex? Is that all he wants? Do you think this person is violent? Do you think he has your best interest at heart?
Talk to your own heart before deciding, and then, once you've decided, take control of your life and handle things.
2006-12-27 16:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by frenzee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? My opinion, 16 is way to young. You have so much to learn and experience yet. Do you know what you want out of life yet? I always felt it took a year before I knew a guy well enough to know if I wanted to end it, or continue the relationship. My husband and I dated for 5 years before we got married.
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2006-12-27 16:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by denise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight that you are too young and not ready! but be nice - hes young and in love his just trying to show it!
people change alot from 16-21 and you may not want to be together anymore - if you do then great get married then , it will mean more than rushing into it as teenagers!
2006-12-27 17:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant get married at 16 depending on state you live in)
shouldnt get married at 16
he has a lot of maturing to do and so do you.
marriage is very sacred, and lasts FOREVER, and is promise that you make to God! God does not like broken promises.
grow a little - learn more about yourself, learn more about God, love Him first and your boyfriend second. i guarantee you- 10 years from now you will say- wow that guy was right!
2006-12-27 16:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by insider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters you can tell him that you can't get married because you are underage. Tell him that you are happy being a couple and if in a couple years things are good (when you are 18 and legal) then you can see about being engaged.
2006-12-27 16:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's completely up to you. If you want to end it...do it...don't beat around the bush. If you think there is something there ask him to slow down and don't bring it up again because you feel that you are too young.
2006-12-27 16:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by goldenfir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest. You are both too young and have your whole life ahead of you. Tell him how you feel and dont hold back. It will hurt both of you but he will respect you more in years to come. You might respect yourself a little more too
2006-12-27 16:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by jake622003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋