Don't they almost destory the image of Gay people. I don't need to describe it you know what I'm saying.
Straight people we do mardi gras and spring break but we don't do it in our neighborhoods and it's not about rights it's about sex.
So why can't it be called Gay sex Parade, no one in those parades looks concerned about rights at all? Then why do it in your neighborhood? It almost seems like an insult to Gay people that want rights so they can disapear into suburbia like anyone else.
Now a March, or a speech I dig that I can see why thats needed but the Parade why not save that for the Gay Cruise or something.
2006-12-27 08:30:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
All of your comments are noted, I just don't see why you need to celebrate the fact that you like the same sex.
2006-12-27 08:49:41 · update #1
Do YOU call Mardi Gras a "sex parade?" No, you do not! So, why should we call ours? That's expecting more from us than you do yourself.
Of course we want to "disappear" into Suburbia like everyone else, that's the point. We here, we're queer! Accept us and let us be. Think of it as children rebelling and pushing thier lives in their parents faces. It doesn't make it right, its NOT always smart, but they do it to prove a point. LOOK AT ME! I'm not going anywhere and you're going to have to accept it.
Not all gays agree with the outrageous parades, but it takes "all kinds." So, we need to support those that feel the need to do these things, love them and tell them they are good people too. And they are, they are just blowing off steam. Lets face it, they aren't televised, no children HAVE to be there on the sidelines if their parents don't want them to be, perhaps except by accident.
Until we have equal rights, these things will happen. If, as you said, YOU can have Mardi Gras (which according to you is about SEX, yet not called that), then why can't we be equal and have one too? Sounds like, "its okay for us, but not for you."
2006-12-27 09:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sad to say that I have to agree with you a bit. When the Gay Pride Parades were started they were a way to get communities to know that we exist as a group; that we aren't going to be relegated to the "back of the bus". But over time it seems that it has become a freaky sex show on wheels (from the ones I have been to) giving the idea to the general public that we are nothing more that sex crazed. It doesn't surprise me that a lot of heteros think we're crazy to demand the right to treated equal under the law. They see the Parades and the photos posted online and think that all we do is eat, drink, and sleep sex.
If you like partying the current Gay Pride Parades way all the power to you. I will be the last person to tell anyone how to lead their individual lives. The thing is the Parades act as a representative of all gay people whether its intentional or not. I think if we want to change the minds of hetero Americans then we have to show them that we are no different from them except that we are attracted to members of our own gender.
By broadening our image from just sex and sex related topics, we create a community that has so much to offer. If anyone feels offended by what I have said then I apologize because that wasn't my intention. I just want others to know that we are complex, multi-demesional people like any other.
2006-12-27 08:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Michael K 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, let's get one thing straight first (no pun intended): it's a gay PRIDE parade. Anything having to do with rights would probably be called a rally. Secondly, there is no one reason for having the parade.
Recent American history tended to cast shame on those with a same-sex orientation. In addition, gay people (men and women) often felt isolated.
Among other things, the parade is a public Affirmation, the positive effects of which would hopefully carry over into the participant's daily life, and empower them to live openly as a gay person. The annual event also provides an opportunity for non-gay people to offer their support and acceptance. The goal is to for people to accept -- rather than feel ashamed of -- themselves.
The fact is that some members of the gay community see the event as an opportunity to emphasize their physical life as well. And while there may be examples of poor taste, it is intended as an expression of pride, and as such, should be taken in context.
The ultimate goal is to NOT need gay pride parades, nor gay pride days. But until being gay is a non-issue, they are probably still necessary.
2006-12-27 15:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by bearcruiser1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually having a gay satisfaction parade is a rather sturdy darn element. that is sturdy to get out networking, bear in mind old acquaintances, bear in mind stonewall, and the area companies raking in money do no longer seem to innovations the two. it quite is a fashion greater effective reason to have a parade than while a activities group wins a championship. Actaully being irish i think of it quite is a miles better reason than st. pattys day parade, or thanksgiving day which does no longer something yet remind human beings it quite is time to save for christmas at present. yet why quit there? My significant other is latino and we would desire to continually do away with the latino satisfaction parade? How appropriate to the Puerto Rican parade, or cape veridians, or the community little league communities that have a parade on establishing day? all of them delay site visitors too. Heck enable's do away with all parades wonderful? no remember what number situations this question is posed human beings continually think of that is approximately celebrating whom we do or do no longer sleep with. that is approximately custom, rememberance, acquaintances, commerce too, and the ordinary fact that we finally could have a parade.
2016-12-18 20:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by gambrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fully aggree with Michael K. Im gay myself and think the gay pride parades are a necessity. My only dislike is that it gets way out of control sometimes and lacks some tact at times. It's supposed to be something for everyone however I felt totally nauseated when this super anorexic scrawny guy wearing a dress did a cartwheel in front of a whole family that included children and he had nothing underneath covering him. I think thats kinda traumatic and is extremely detrimental to the gay community.
2006-12-27 09:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much a celebration as a way to make the gay community more visible. If young gay people know there are others like them, they will feel supported. These parades also show how many gay people---and gay supporters--- there are. This comes in handy for gay political causes, like same sex marriage.
2006-12-27 22:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever been to a Gay Pride (not Gay Rights) parade? no, they don't "destroy the image of gay people." we come together to have fun, show support, make people aware, learn, network, share. It's not just about sex! it's pretty obvious that you don't know anyone gay or lesbian, nor have you ever been to a Pride event.
and, it's not just straight people that go to Mardi Gras. not everyone who goes to Mardi Gras is French or Catholic. most go to have fun, and yeah, drink a bit, too. and a lot of "us" go as well.
not everyone is Christian....should we subject everyone to Christmas or Easter parades? not everyone is Irish, should we subject everyone to a St. Patrick's Day parade? not everyone has served in the military, should we subject everyone to the Veteran's Day parade?
there are all kinds of "pride" parades...not just gay pride parades. how is showing pride or celebrating insulting?
what is and insult is someone who's obviously prejudice who doesn't really know a thing about the group/people against whom they show prejudice.
if you don't like us, no one is making you go to a parade. but quit passing judgment when you base your feelings on lies, stereotypes, and generalizing assumptions.
2006-12-27 09:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
(Roll Eyes)
The PRIDE Parades are as much a Celebration of the will to stand up in the face of those who condemn you as much as they are about obtaining equal rights for the LGBT crowd.
I find it funny as can be, there can be 5000 marchers 200 floats and all anyone focuses on is the 2 or 3 floats with either the Leathermen or The Drag Queens on it.
Perhaps you should look at the other things going on around the parade.
2006-12-27 09:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Gay rights is about gaining acceptance and equal right. Gays are still discriminated against and in order to put a stop to it we have to be open and let the public know that we demand fair treatment and they need to get used to us because we aren't going anywhere.
You could have a straight pride parade if you want. Not that it's needed straights face very little discrimination. However you should be proud of your sexuality so go ahead and knock yourself out.
Besides they're pretty fun.
2006-12-27 16:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are three ways to think about this 1. how we deport ourselves in public that will be peoples image of us. 2. Who gives a rats #$$ gay parades are for gay people! 3. depends on what you consider to be GAY.
Are transvestites, Transgendered, bisexual people gay? Do they have a stake in this fight? Or should the only people who march be straight LOOKING business men & women?
Hay it’s your call. The way I see it is this movement isn’t about me, although I take part in it.
I’m 43 I have a partiner that I love. It’s about you younger people. Will you have to put up with the same bull $%#% I did?
the names the harassment the beatings.
2006-12-27 10:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋