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date from the past when it wass soo much bettter , and now all we do is stress..I know I do!

2006-12-27 08:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Hi, I am thinking of that question the last months. I couldn't say my childhood but my teens. I would like to go back to 16 to remember why i tried so much to achieve what i achieved till now.
I got into the university i wanted i am working now, i live alone but i don't feel so huppy as i imagined i would feel.
I have an answer for that. i am 27 , and many friends of mine got married. The natural for me would be to stay alone, travel , meet people, learn better yourself without the stress of professional security and stabiliness, and then decide about a relationship with ONLY ONE woman. So i would like to go back to 16 , remember my original dreams without the influence of my anxious and stressed colleagues. I am huppy that i am single . The age between 18-25 is very dangerous..You are vulnerable to sily ideas and believes.

2006-12-27 08:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Avramidis K 1 · 0 0

When I was 5 we moved to Cuba; Daddy was a sailor. We lived barefoot. We were safe from weirdos because we were on base. There was crick behind our house and we would play in there until the moms would yell at us and make us take a nap. Lunch was free for the taking from a neighbor's lime tree. The sugarcane vendor came once a week and for a nickel, we would get a 6' stalk. Mother and Daddy would go out late at night in their boat and bring home huge lobsters and frogs.

I had a playhouse in the backyard where we could play doctor. We had no TV, one radio, one phone and a hi-fi. M&D taught all of us kids ballroom dancing; once a year we'd all go out to eat and dance. Weekends, the backyard was filled with families barbequing, drinking beer, telling jokes, fussing with babies, the whole works.

The sun shone all year. The playground was huge. We went to the outdoor movie on Friday nights (a portable screen set in front of about 30 folding chairs). Cigarettes were 20 cents a pack. On long distance calls - few and far between - M&D would yell into the phone. We learned trust, honesty, religion, the value of education, how to use the library on our own, walking long distances was normal. It was Idyllic.

But then Castro came into power. After 4 wonderful years we had to leave. Thanx for asking...

2006-12-27 15:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I totally do!! I think about when I was young and the days seemed SO much longer and the air smelled SO much sweeter. When my only worry in life was if mom was going to make me take a nap on my day off or if I had enough couch cushions to properly build a fort. Definitely miss being a kid!!

2006-12-27 08:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0 0

one of the hardest things a human can do is live in the moment. if you can learn to do it stress goes way down and the positive aspects of life drown out the negative.

no obstacle is too big, and remember the memories from your childhood are mostly false so you really aren't reminiscing on reality ;)

2006-12-27 08:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by snocy 3 · 0 0

Yes.

2006-12-27 09:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by *~SoL~ * Pashaa del Ñuñcaa. 4 · 0 0

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